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girls pls help me ..?
This girl is my college mate At 1st .. without knowing her on the first sight i went and told her that ur looking good, nd after sme days gave her greeting on her birthday in the college ... she returned it with great anger .. and sent a message in fb stating that " I dont like to be your friend or anything else"..after that whenever I cross her in the college she will stare at me .. I also see her .. this went for about 4 months .. after that i sent her a message in fb that .. "It was just an usual thing wat i did for that why you are not talking with me it really hurts me when U stare at me , sorry for each and everything wat i did and 1 more thing even now i want to state that you are the cutest and the prettiest girl in my life " she replied that "I didnt like the way you gave greeting without knowing me .. and dont worry i will talk with you " after that i was asking about her and she as asking about me .. after that i gave request in G talk .. when ever she comes online she will itself initiate the conversation .. but wont talk wit me for more than 10 exchanges .. she will say some xcuses and leave the chat ... unlike before she is not even staring at me or seeing me when i cross her in the college .. now my question is pls tell me why she is not talking properly with me and why she is not seeing me as wat she did before ... does she likes me ?? does beauty matters in this .. ?she very well knows that i love her ...If you love someone else and you find a boy like me crazy on U will you talk with him or ignore him ?
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
First off, you greeted her wrong. Basically you should have politely introduced yourself instead of telling her she is "looking good". That is a sexist remark and does not set well with women that do not know you. In effect you first contact with her is a fail. And because she has already formed an sexist opinion of you, she is wary of you and your attempts to communicate with her. She was staring at you because she wants to keep you at arms length. Her online chats with you is a safe way to communicate with you so she can further analyze you. Apparently your online conversations with her did not convince her to change her opinion of you but she does not consider you a threat anymore. Since she has a BF, you need to move on. I suspect (and most likely correct) that your professed love for her is based solely on your visual perception of her and not her personality and she knows that. If I were in her shoes, I would ignore you too.
If you want to blend in better with your college mates, you need to become more socially adept and dress appropriately for the campus and classroom. If you still look, dress and act high school, you won't be taken seriously on campus. Which by the way, is my perception of you based on what you wrote and how you wrote it. First impressions is everything in social, academic and business circles, including how you write, talk (carry a conversation) and introducing yourself.
Don't take my suggestions the wrong way. Use it to look at yourself and determine where you need to change. College is not only about getting an education (or partying) but about personal growth which will be your guide throughout your adult life. And you might be surprised if some young woman finds you just as attractive as you did with this woman you are infatuated with now. Time will tell as your college tenure continues.
Source(s): Female and, Collage Graduate. - bajulalLv 45 years ago
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