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Please help me I can't do this anymore?
Hi there,
I don't know what to do anymore. I work, go to school full time, I have Fibromyalgia (a chronic pain and fatigue disease ) and Endometeriosis. My parents ignore the fact that I am sick, they don't support me and they never have. I have never been good enough for them, no matter what I do it is never enough. I work so hard to make them happy, on top of everything else I keep the house clean and that is a huge task...I clean up after 5 other people constantly. They are always yelling at me telling me what I could have done, or what I didn't do now, they are never just happy with what I do. I need help and support from them with being sick but they don't help me or support me they just ignore it and pretend like it doesn't exist when I am in large amounts of pain every day. Each day is a struggle for me, I push through the pain in all that I do and I never stop or never give in but it gets really hard. I just don't wanna deal with them anymore, they don't get it...they blame me for our relationship problems saying that I take advantage of them and that I don't care about them...please what should I do? It is really hard when my friends at work care more about me then they do. Will I ever be enough for them or should I just give up on them now? I am really having a hard time dealing with everything, work full time, school full time, the constant pain...please if anyone has any suggestions or words of encouragement I would really, really appreciate it.
I struggle with them but I am mostly struggling with the pain and the fact that it never goes away...I don't know how to cope...I take medication but it doesn't help much...I just get so tired of the pain never going away..makes everything harder...I just want to give up
4 Answers
- 1 decade ago
If I were you, I would get emancipated. Find some roomates(hopefully some ppl at work) and get my own place. I would not give up on them necessarily. Maybe space and you being gone will make them appreciate you more when you do actually come around. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate and you need to do you. Ecspecially with your illness. Good luck to you! :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think you need to get away from them...Show them your a human not a slave!..Cause i went through this just like you,I know it gets to you and makes you feel horrible,being in large amount of pain everyday..I think you need to seriously get away.They expect so much and show nothing in return!..Remember there are people out there who care!...But this is a time "you" need to listen to your heart.Nobody on here can tell you whats "best" for you..
Source(s): "Stay Strong" - 1 decade ago
Not sure what to suggest but I do want to say this.
You are a beautiful person and strong no matter what anyone thinks. Do stuff to please yourself and take care of yourself because you only get this one chance. Live, Laugh, and Love. Always be yourself; because the people who mind don't matter and the people that matter, don't mind.
Things will be okay and their is always someone else that is thinking of you and caring for you.
- Mike SLv 61 decade ago
First off it sounds mean but "Suck it up" Everyone has problems in life dear, it's how we overcome these problems that make us succeed and carry one.
Now let's help you. Stop trying to please others, and become comfortable in your own skin.
Realize that no one in this world will know exactly how you feel, so don't expect them to care as much as you would like.
and finally seek some counseling, you may find just having someone to listen will relieve what you feel.
