Why do people say that God doesn’t send people to Hell, people send themselves?

It's really a cop-out to avoid the fact that either the 'loving' god is doing the sending, or setting up the conditions that send them.

What's more (according to the beliefs anyway), as such a god is omniscient, he knew who is doomed to Hell before he created the entire species.

It's just not thought-through in any detail. You can certainly see the 'unsophisticated tribal belief' hallmark in the idea.

Because Hell is not a place, it's a state of mind arising from deliberate choices and a logically necessary consequence of those choices. You can choose to open yourself up to others and the world or not. If you choose not to, emotional and psychological damage will result because we need each other and we need God, i.e. an open system mentally.

God created conscious beings who are finite. An infinite conscious being would simply be God - it's logically impossible for more than one omniscient being to exist because then all mental events between them would be shared, which would make them identical. Also, a world where there are created conscious beings is better than one without them. The possibility of hell follows from those premises and is nothing to do with rules created by God, any more than God can make 2+2=5. The only argument i can think of against hell is if a lifeless Universe is better than one with life in it.

Many of your suppositions are incorrect. Hell was originally created for the fallen angels who rebelled against God. It was not created for humans. Unfortunately, Adam and Eve also rebelled as have many people since who choose to turn away from righteousness. Would you allow murderers and rapists to live with you for eternity? I think not. Similarly, God chooses to have those who have built a relationship with him through faith in Jesus Christ to spend eternity with him. Sinners could not stand to even be in heaven around God who is a holy, consuming fire. Therefore, there must be a place they can go after they die called hell. God does not want anyone to go there, which the Bible clearly says, but God did not make puppets and will not force anyone to go to heaven. YOU GET TO DECIDE!!

See it this way: hell is eternal absence from God's presence. If you don't believe in God, you choose to be eternally absent from God's presence. Ergo, you're already in hell. Hell only matters if you're religious; for everybody else, God let's you do your thing without getting in the way.

It's the ultimate in blame the victim. The same people will tell you that malaria happens because someone stole a piece of fruit.

Do not be confused by the Craftiness of men.

God created hell, but hell might not be what the imaginations of men conclude. although, in many ways it could be worse.

A lot of things happen that aren't according to God's will - it's called he gave humankind free will

They didn't think it through very well. It's like saying that the guy didn't rape the girl, she asked to be raped with what she was wearing. She did it to herself.

In effect, to be born is to be sentenced to hell, if we push modern Christian theology to its conclusion. And for what? For God being offended by what someone *else* did that no one alive today never even met.

Read the scriptures, there is no such thing as hell, being in a sinful spiritual state and away from God is the so mentioned lake of fire.

Because the divinely ordained rules clearly state that nothing can be God's fault.