I feel dirty and humiliated please help!?

Sounds like you've got the attention of one nasty girl.

Are there any friends you can confide in? Even if you don't want them to do anything, having some support will help you a lot. The emotional pain of what she's doing to you is just going to get worse the longer this goes on.

You might want to consider arranging to record your conversation with her the next time she comes by and forces you to do things to her - especially the part where you say you don't want to and she threatens you. Being outed as a lesbian might make things socially awkward for you for a while, but being arrested for blackmail and rape would be more than awkward for your tormentor. And you don't have to and shouldn't confront her about it - if you're still in school, take it to a counselor there, if you're not, take it to the police.

If that's more than you feel ready to handle, perhaps passive resistance would be more accessible to you. Next time she makes her threats, shrug and do nothing, except get away from her if you can. You've got to realize that you're at the point where nothing she's threatening you with would actually be worse than what's she's making you do - and very little of what she's threatening you with has any real danger to it. She'd have to be some kind of an idiot to think that she could accuse you of rape at this point and have anyone believe her - and if she spreads a rumor that you're a lesbian, and you ignore it, is anyone really going to care for more than the time it takes for the next rumor to start to spread?

You've fallen victim to someone who knows how to hurt people, and you need help no matter how this goes. Find someone to talk to about this that you trust - a parent, a friend, a counselor, *someone* - you aren't going to get through this well on your own.

Well to be fair, she sorta raping you (obviously not rape raping you) But she's forcing you to do something you don't want for her pleasure!!! Thats just not right.

You could come out, I know you're nervous but it's 2010, nothings much of a shocker anymore we've heard, seen, done it all.. You should be proud of what you are! Because it doesn't matter if you like boys or girls or both or whatever you are still you, you are still pretty, and have a personality that people love, and if your friends freak and ditch you, then they weren't friends worth having, you will always make new friends, more accepting friends.

And your parents will always love you because you're their little girl. I mean maybe they might think you're "just going through a stage" but when you get older and you're still a lesbian then what can they do about it, and by then they will of accepted it anyways.

Or you could tell someone whats she being doing to you, well making you do, because I'm guessing you don't want to be doing this. She is a sick girl.

Or if your not ready to come out, you could tell her she can tell that you weren't to kiss her, and when people find out you can just say you were drunk, everyone does stupid things when they're drunk. and then you can turn it round and tell everyone what she done, because by the sounds of it she cant be completely straight.

Or you could just not let her in your house.

Hope this helps and I hope this gets sorted out. x

There is a way to tell without becoming a known lesbian. If she is forcing you to do things sexually that you don't want to, you need to tell somebody. Don't effing STAND UP for yourself; you'll end up in a worse situation. Go to your school administrator or guidance counselor, and tell them what happened. If she tries to put the blame on you, stand up for yourself then. She can't hurt you with another person in the room. If she tries to say that you're a lesbian, you don't have to admit to it, but you don't have to deny it either. Just avoid saying anything about that. All that matters is that you get out of this situation.

I'm pretty sure she doesn't want anyone finding out she was with a girl. Just threaten her back, Tell her you're done with it and if she does anything there is going to be a huge humiliating outing for the both of you. She doesn't want anyone to know just as much as you don't. Be strong. I know you can do it.

tell your mom and dad & the law enforcement officials. SHE'S the rapist. definite, people will locate which you're gay, yet what this female is doing would be lots greater detrimental for you interior the lengthy run. I additionally propose which you look right into a number of the rape help websites & communities available. you do not ought to pass via this on my own.

firs of all, thats hot!

SECOND OF ALL, SHES A B*TCH, and you have to do something about it! you have the choice of coming out of the closet, or continuing like that (or ending it by telling guidance counselor or police). also, if she says you raped her, does that sound like a credible person? if she tells people about you, you tell them about her! it works both ways!

also you could go to the staff and say she is blackmailing you, but that would be really hard for anybody to do and i would understand if you wouldnt want to do that.

person above says go to police about sexual harassment. i much agree with them. that way people at school dont have to find out and its a lot easier to tell the police stuff coz they dont know you and you will never meet them again, but they can do a lot about stuff. they can get her suspended or expelled.

How is she going to tell people you are a lesbian without them all finding out that she is a lesbian?

Threaten to tell everyone about her.

Think logically.

How in the f--k is anyone gonna believe her, that is saying YOU are a lesbian. without her admitting SHE is also a lesbian.

Call her f--king bluff.

She won't do it.

Make her pleasure YOU.

Just dont do it, tell her if she tells everyone SHE can be in serious trouble for sexual harassment

She's threatening you and thats niot good :/

if you need someone to talk to, feel free to e-mail me

Im 17, but pretty intelligent?

lol

not trying to be rude, but i might be a little jealous of your dilema lol id like to be forced to pleasure my gf sometime lol that sounds really hot.