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I need a guy advice here please?

I was dating a guy, but things started to go very fast and i got scafred about my feelings and so i was rude to him and send him away...then i got sorry and asked him to forgive me, but he was hurt and reply back to my message saying it was over in a friendly way though showing caring for me...i asked him to forgive me but he never said anything back....we got 3 days no messaging....two days ago he sent me a message saying:

Wish you a good night, and i reply back saying thank you...

This friday i asked if he wanted to go out with me but he never reply...do you think he needs sometime?he doesn't talk to me and i regreat that i was mean to him...i feel the best would be to give sometime saying nothing right?I apreciate guys answers pl...

thanks!

Update:

Thanks guys, but let me say you are too harsh on girls...come on we all make mistakes, we are all humans!!!

Update 2:

Thanks everyone for the advices...well i tried to call him but he wouldn't answer me...i know he was hurt, but i was scared too::))I guess im going to follow the giving time advice and see what happens!We really had a strong chemistry together and fit well together!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I would have to say that things will probably work out,but I would be a little cautious about you if you reacted to me like that because you were scared(?).I would work on my self control a little.If you feel things are getting out of control,just push him away,and tell him you are not ready yet.No need to be mean and rude.It was just the heat of the moment.You admit it was a mistake.Just tell him you are sorry for acting so rude.I'm sure if you are sincere he will forgive you.

  • 1 decade ago

    there is no easy way to say this and i dont mean to hurt your feelings but i think the problem is you sent him away.im sure he was quite attracted to you and you told him no and in the process you marked yourself as someone that hurt him in his mind. until you adress this he probably wont talk to you very much because he is still in defensive mode. the only thing you can do is to wait a few days and ask him for coffee or sumthing that friends might do together and explain to him why you sent him away in the first place. I cant say what his answer will be but i can tell you if he takes you back he has very strong feelings for you and he is a brave guy because he is willing to let himself be vulnerable to you

  • 1 decade ago

    its not worth it, but if you really want to get back to him tell him straight up you are sorry and give him a good reason if needed to lie to him, say your mom called you and stuff was bad that day you were out of control....

    if he does take you back it will be awkward for a long time, and the love just doesn't exist the way it should so you will have to break up with him again....

    if you were really mean this might be a reason why he would take you back:

    hell be really nice to you, the best lover ever

    than one day he will take you to a motel have sex with you and after he is finished he will throw 5 dollars on the bed and say "thats for night" and leave you there

    THAT HAS HAPPENED

    HEAR IT FROM ME THERE ARE LOT OF BETTER OTHER GUYS OUT THERE let it go

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It seems like you gave him the control. You made a mistake , but afterwards you did everything that was up to you, now the ball is in his field. If he really likes you, he will eventually call, if he doesn't, move on.

    If you're really desperate about him, call him. Text messages are wrong, so impersonal, there's no way you can tell how somebody feels about something from a text message.

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    You probably do need to give him some time! He needs time to think about what happened, so leave him alone for a while, and just live your normal life. I think that he knows you are sorry, considering he sent you Wish you a good night. just give him some time!

  • 1 decade ago

    sorry, but you should forget about him. guys don't like getting blown off, so he's probably done with you. next time you like a guy, don't be rude to him. if things are going fast, just say that. and unless he's just a horn dog, he'll understand. good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    Once a girl blows me off, turns me down, or pushes me away she NEVER gets a second chance with me.

    If he is like me,it's time to move on.

    EDIT: and we pay for our mistakes. You have NO idea what it feels like for a guy to work up the courage to ask a girl out or tell her you like her, only to have her push you away or reject you.

    My advice to all ladies out there:

    If you like the guy,dont play games. And certainly dont refer to us as harsh just because we dont play into your games.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think he is trying it on to get something he wants, probably sex, call his bluff, hit him with the same as he hit you. The result will be a win/win for you.

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