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Couple communication.... =(?

So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months. We are both out of long marriages. Last night we had our first fight/disagreement, kinda petty. After a couple hours she was quiet and ended up leaving cause she was upset. Now she has told me that she is horrible at talking about her feelings, while I want to talk about everything. She mostly gives the silent treatment. I have text-ed her and told her I love her and to call me when she wants to. We usually talk/text several times a day, how long do I give her before I attempt to call her or go see her? Thanks.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Maybe she was under the false assumption that because you were so much better than her last relationship that you would never fight. Give her a day and try to talk to her some more. It shouldn't take somebody any more than that to think about what was said and decide if they were overreacting or if you were. Maybe you both need to consider that? Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think give her a few days to unwind. But, I am not sure what the disagreement was. Something petty for you may be serious for her....

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