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I see this fine girl every morning at the train station, what to do?

Every Morning when I'm going to school it's the same routine. I get up at six, shower, breakfast, catch the 7:15 train, stop off..... and before I catch my next train to school, I always see this exquisite looking girl sitting on the seat with a scarf wrapped around her and listening to her ipod happily. Every Single morning!!! She goes to a different school than me, and she is probably in the same year as me. I've always thought about going up to her and striking up a conversation, but she looks so zoned out into her ipod, she's not that easy to approach, plus she looks real shy (which I like).

I'm not shy, but I am slightly reserved, so it's out of my element to walk up to a pretty girl and talk to her. I've always been fussy with girls, and she is as beautiful as they get in my eyes. It's like ground hog day!!!! everyday she's sitting on that seat and I think "Damn sugar!!! that is one fine little lady, I might just go talk to her" but I always end up pussying out. Every single time :(

Don't get the wrong impression, I'm not trying to 'get' with her.. I just want to talk like friends u know?? and see where it heads from there.

I have two questions 1#. Ladys..... Would u find it weird if a random 'half decent looking' guy came up to u and striked up a convo?

and 2#. What should I say to her? lmao, cos I've got no clue, thank you and peace!!! ;D

Update:

p.s I said 'half decent looking', just so u know I'm no ugly lol, but I'm not overly confident with my looks either rofl

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i personally beleive that sounded somewhat romantic :)

    It would not be weird at all! She should be flattered that a fellow as yourself is actually admiring you from afar :) i would. you should simply go up to her and ask simply "hey what school you go to?"

    and the conversation will take it from there. And maybe the fact that you get shy is that you might be attracted to her :) Dont "*****-out" just go up to her :) Get her number too maybe and ask her to get coffee or food :) Anygirl would love that :) And dont be straight forward and talk about how she looks...get to know her you know. It means something more...glad if i could help :)

  • 1 decade ago

    If a guy went up to me at a train station and started talking to me and he was around my age I wouldn't be scared or offended or anything so don't worry about that.

    It depends on the girl - some may find it flattering even.

    If she's shy though be prepared to carry on the conversation. Ask her a few questions but don't interrogate her so she feels like she's playing 20 questions!

    Ask her what she's listening to - maybe you have the same music tastes?

    Ask her what school she goes to - maybe you could joke about that

    Just act like yourself - otherwise you come across fake and uncomfortable.

    I'm not sure about telling her you think she's damn fine straight out haha. But maybe later after you've talked to her a few time.

  • 1 decade ago

    ok its an easy nd simple equation girls have their ipod for 2 reasons the 1st cuz they like music :P the 2nd is cuz they dnt like someone to mess with them durin their waiting time, so what u have to do is baby steps ... catch her eyes ( i already think u have her eyes eventhough she isnt actin like it lots of times when u keep on seein a stranger more than once they will b naturally give u an eye ), give her a smile, not omfg smile that goes from one ear to another, no a simple small smile nd let it b real, 3rd day go up 2 her nd sit on the seat nd make a conversation like nice weather, or nice song ( if u can hear bits nd pieces when the headsets r up) dnt act like the big guy, just b urself nd take things easily

  • 1 decade ago

    You really need to grow a pair, walk up to her and talk to her. What is the worse that happens? She ignores you? She gets scared and walk away from you? Have you ever heard of nothing ventured, nothing gained?

    You say she listens to an ipod. There is a good conversation starter. If you like music and you know she likes music listening to an ipod, walk up to her and ask her about what she is listening on her ipod. Perfect icebreaker.

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  • Lad, yer just a bit gun shy is all! Listen to this ol' scallywag, an' he'll set ya straight!

    The first thing ye've got ta do is make yerself feel confident. Throw on a bit o' the Ol' Spice, and pump yerself up wit' some upbeat tunes (I suggest something a bit piratey).

    Next, ye need at figger out yer appraoch. Is she like a French Merchant Vessel, sailin' steady, ripe fer the plunderin'? Or be she like a Spanish Treasure Galleon, a wee bit slower, but full o' fight? Once ye figger that out, ye can move in fer the attack!

    Finally is tha attack itself. Iffin' she be o' the Merchant vessel variety, a slightly devious ploy be needed: Pretend ta drop somethin' near 'er, and mayhap she'll notice. Free pass to Conversation booty me hearty! Now, if she o' the Treasure Galleon variety, a direct attack be needed! Swagger on yup to yer bonny lass, and flash 'er yer best smile, and offer yer hand in friendship.

    That's 'ow we buccaneers get it done, and now so can ye!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    honey, you should really just go and say hi. if you keep thinking about it and doing nothing, then maybe one day youll go and she wont be there anymore and youll wonder what would have happened had you approached her. my boyfriend of 7 years now just came up to me out of the blue back in high school and said hi. i didnt think it was weird and since im shy, i was glad he took the first step. you dont need to think of anything great to say, just go, ask her if the seat next to her is taken, and make casual conversation. you wont regret it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    flop it out, take a massive runup and do the biggest turkey slap shes ever seen.

    Talk to her about school? her grade? her subjects? what shes listening to? why she catches the train?

    Try and do it like around the time your train comes or her train comes so uve got an excuse to bail if awkward silence happens.....maybe bring her some songs she might like?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Chances are, she can hear everything around her, it's a good way to look like your not listening and eavesdrop(not to say that she's doing that). Anyways if you went up to her and just said hey whatcha listening to or something along those lines, she'll hear you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just grow a freaking pair and say hello. Its not that hard, the girl wont freak out and bite your face off.

    Just make sure you articulate and act moderately confident even if you aren't

  • 1 decade ago

    what is there to lose, just go talk to her! the worst thing that could happen is that she isnt into you, and even then, at least you know you tried and you dont have to wonder anymore.

    also, just imagine if it worked and it lead to a friendship or relationship!

    there's nothing wrong with taking the risk and just doin it!

    help me out!

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