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I'm stuck between two guys what should I do?

Okay well i've liked this one guy lets call him Jim. I've liked Jim for 3 years and told him my feelings and he said he likes me 2 but hes not ready for a relationship so i said ok id wait. its been nearly 2 months and he hasn't mentioned it. plus we're like best friends. Meanwhile theres guy 2 we'll call him Cameron. Cameron is rlly sweet and hes looking for a relationship and seems to like me but Jim and Cameron are friends so im afraid if i go out with Cameron ill never have a chance with Jim! and i rlly like Jim. Im not sure what to do help!!!! and they're both a year older then me we're in middle school. Thanks no negative comments

Update:

Please Do not say we're too young i don't care! my teacher met her husband in 6th grade so no need to tell me i should be learning math and english god! TY!!!

Update 2:

p.s. i do like cameron just not as much as jim.... i was just saying he would go out with me if i said yes unlike jim where im not sure cuzs hes not ready

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  • 1 decade ago
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    if jim hasnt made any effort to be with you, and you wanna be with someone, take a shot at cameron. but if you truly like jim than talk to him. tell him where youre at with this whole thing and you wanna know whats going on. if he doesnt wanna man up and make you his girl than why stick around and wait, you wanna be happy and all the waiting is gonna do is just eat you inside. talk to cameron as well and see where hes at how he feels and if hes very sincire. hope for the best. good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think you should go out with Cameron just cause you're not with Jim. I mean , you like Jim right? Then wait for Jim. It's been too months though so you should ask him if he wants to e in a relationship or not. If ge doesn't, you should at least try to get over him and see if you'd like being with Cameron

  • 1 decade ago

    Learn a lesson early. If Cameron wanted to be w/you-- He would have been w/you when he had his chance. But since you're in middle school what is most likely going to happen is you're going to go for Cameron and Jim will then come around. Good Luck

  • 1 decade ago

    15 years from now you'll go "who the heck were those two kids I liked in middle school"? And your husband will say, "You actually remember that you liked someone in middle school? That was so long ago."

    And you'll say "Yeah, that's true it was." And the moment will pass as you now realize that life as an adult matters more than as a 13 yr old.

    The end.

    Moral: YOU'RE IN FRICKEN MIDDLE SCHOOL. YOU ARE A KID. Don't worry about Jimmys and Johnnys, worry about learning math so you can teach your own kids someday, learn how to write properly in English class so you aren't an adult that can't figure out when to use "your" and when to use "you're" in a sentence. And for God's sake, learn that an apostrophe is for possession and contractions, not pluralizing. (Sorry, it just bugs me when I still see people write or type DVD's or birthday's....I know you didn't, I'm just ranting)

    Source(s): I had crushes in middle school too. You forget them. You don't think you will. you think the person you like in 5th grade is your soul mate- I've been there. But it passes, you'll probably forget their names one day.
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  • 1 decade ago

    Don't worry im stuck b/w three. This is when you need to really think of their qualities as far as holding a relationship. Ask yourself questions like "what would so and so do if this happens?" or start thinking of how they would do as husbands in the future. For me right now, the three guys are all great, but i can't find that quality that makes me jump and want to be with any of them. SO my solution is to stay single. I do have an eye on someone, but he's not one of the three guys that like me.so complicated

  • 1 decade ago

    ive been in that situation....let me just tell u my story, well im gonna use the names u used, i was best friends with jim and i told him how i felt, and he wasnt ready for a relationship, but cameron had liked me for 2 years, so i gave cameron a chance, but that lasted for about a week, then a few months later, i asked jim out and we dated for 6months, then jim dumped me cause he had anger issues, then the next day (a saturday at like 7am) cameron asked me out, which is jims like BEST FRIEND and i didnt know wat was goin on so i said yes...then cameron told jim we were dating, jim pretended to be happy when cameron told him, but when jim called me....lets just say HE WENT OFF!!! and cussed me out...with words i had never heard of....and cameron and i went on a date the next day and kissed and made out (movie) and cameron told jim about this....jim did the same thing as before, he pretended to be happy for cameron but went off on me...then cameron broke up with me a few days later after jim told him that i was "leading him on" i fixed that, and cameron and i got back together, then all of a sudden jim came crying back to me about how he wants me back....and then cameron dumps me again bcuz he said i texted jim too much (he didnt know it was jim swearing at me the whole time) and cameron and i get back together again but a few days later i dumped him then a few days later we got back together then a few days later he dumped me.....and well that was the end of cameron....but then jim decided to date this girl that ive hated for about 9yrs, and then everything went downhill from there. so cameron doesnt talk to me anymore, he pretends ive never existed and Jim and i talk every now and then we decided to be friends "which failed" but we ALWAYS argue...and he can never win the argument so it just makes him madder, and well......what im trying to say is STICK WITH ONE GUY IT MAKES LIFE A TOOOONNNN EASIER (p.s. after reading my story i realize jim is a total jerk! but cameron isnt all that and a bag of chips either) if i were u id go with jim....cameron just seems desperate...and if u date a guy just bcuz he's looking for a relationship it makes u seem desperate. well GOOD LUCK!!! :D

    Source(s): life
  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to Jim about it - ask him how interested he is in you. If he's still going to not want to be in a relationship tell him that you want to be in one and that if he's not interested in one, that you'll be dating someone else.

  • Jack K
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Stuck between 2 guys huh? ... usually a bucket of cold water will get you out of a situation like that ... you may need 2 buckets though

  • 1 decade ago

    um ok...well middle school is a bit youngg for dating u should wait till atleast nineth grade...and if i were u id wait for "jim" cuz if uve liked him for 3 yrs whats another couple of months gonna do...and he saidd he liked too just give him time...i just went thru this with my current bf...we'd be together wayy longer if it wasnt for waiting for him...but it was worth it so id wait<3

    on tht note pleasee answer my question!!

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuZHy...

    Source(s): experience
  • 1 decade ago

    go for the one who dispenses the largest volume

    Source(s): more volume, more cash
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