Please help me handle this situation?

From all that you say .. he is very immature and does not know what he wants. He knows he has a kid with you and you are his safety net. That is all you will ever be if you dont sit down and talk with him. Get him focused on the baby n how bad you want her to have a dad. How bad you want her to grow up n be raised in a family. You wanna be with him but you dont want to play games, you want him to commit to you and his baby. He needs to spend time with that baby alone and with you, more time you spend the stronger the bond will become. If he is truly serious about committing he needs to delete his myspace n face book accounts- tell them its just for your peace of mind. He doesnt need to be tempted n wasting time on that site if he has you.

I think that he does love you but now its time for him to show it with sacrifice. Talk to him about what he said to you when you were preg.. imagine how that made you feel. How would he liked to hear you were sleeping with some dude the whole time u were preg with his baby. You have to put him in ur shows n explain your feelings with soft words - how he cried when you said sexy man to a nother guy.. thats how it felt for you times a thousand. Let him know you dont wanna be with a guy that wants to hurt you - you wanna be with someone who loves you and is faithful and is focused on your love and affection. Ask him how it would make him feel if you started dating someone else.. cause you cant wait for him to be a man forever. The main thing is that you apologize to him first - n just thank him for stuff he has done like being a friend then go in to the other stuff.

He is an unstable guy. He just want to own you that's why he got so uptset that you told another guy sexy. Maybe he was just trying to act jealous. Trust me this guy's mind, thoughts and feelings are completely messed up. If he so says he loves you then both of you should do some counselling together. Is your baby born? You should think about your baby as well.

I DEFINITLY THINK HE LOVES YOU IF HE CRIED:[ men dont do that often and it melts my heart when it does:[ and as for the myspace thing im very sorry you had to see thjat i did the same thing and i founf messages from like only a week before we were dating but we were still good friend that kinda liked eachother {but i saw wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy after we were dating like over a year after!} and it completely destroyed my heart. so i can only imaging how crappy you feel but you should talk to HIM about it and ask him how he feels about you honestly and if hus answer is good then you should forget everything and feel mbetter. and does he know you know he was flirting? if not tell him and ask him why and that should probably lessen your confusion. im not saying it'll make you feel better but it'll help you feel less CONFUSED. good luck<333

Saying Sexy Guy is not cheating and I bet he has made the same comment about other women with his friends and said Sexy Girl with his friends and laughed about it, but didn't cheat and just looked. so you said sexy guy about a picture! You are not a fallen angel! You are normal!

If other girls like him, maybe they deserve a man like him. Whatever happened in the past does not excuse his behavior in the present. I only see this situation getting worse before it gets better. Depends on how long you want to waste your life waiting for this man to grow up.

re: When I was pregnant with our baby

.... Assuming that you delivered that baby.......

DO WHATEVER IT TAKES to make sure your baby gets the best parental role modeling you can give it! Your baby is your #1 priority here and deserves the best role modeling possible. Focus on doing what's right for your child and you will know exactly what to do.

Keep a distance from him. Need not think much about him. He is not a good life partner for you.

you should give him time. maybe stop talking to him for a bit. let him sort his head out. and stop snooping. maybe one day he'll forgive you for cheating maybe he won't.

you both don't sound happy. but you both do sound controlling, possessive and abusive.

I think he loves you but he's bitter because you hurt him.