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How do i deal with my selfish family?

my family and i are not a close family. i had been staying with my boyfriend at his place because we both worked at the same place and it's a better environment. lots of drinking is done by my mother and her husband. him and i are not on speaking terms. my 30 yr old sister, her 24 yr old boyfriend, and my 10 yr old niece also live there. my sister has a major attitude problem that my niece has adopted and i found it insufferable tobe around them. he's no winner either. its a small place and she had been living in the basement with him, while my niece and i had upstairs rooms. recently, my sister and her boyfriend decided it was ok to move all my stuff out and move into my room. my mother apparantly had no say. i never felt so hurt in my life. i'll have to go home for a week or two while my bf goes home for thanksgiving break. which means i will stay on the couch. i just can't seem to forgive my sister and i really don't want to spend any time with any of my family anymore. any advice on what to do and how to handle this situation? thanks alot guys :)

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    According to your description ,it sounds like your an adult so YOU have a say in whether you want to be with your family or not,

    Eventually you'll have to learn to cope with your family or at least tolerate them because you don't know what will happen to you in life

    Source(s): When i went away to college i didn't speak with my family for about a year because i couldn't stand my parents growing up.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Please pray swettie 4 g0d is with u talk t0 g0d and ask him t0 feel ur mind with the words t0 tell ur family h0w u feel and if u may read first j0hn 4:5

    Source(s): If u need any one t0 talk t0 because u are so hurt with ur family and u need some str0ng words......You can always email me.....
  • 1 decade ago

    We do not pick our families. Try to be up beat and positive, but you will never change them.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I agree with the last and first answer

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