doe's age really matter? why didnt he call?

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About 3 weeks ago we had a work social and we all went for drinks, in one bar there was a security guard who i was talking to and flirting with during the night. this friday a few people from work went back and i saw the security guard again. at the end of the night i was talking to him and asked him for his number... he took mine because he didn't know his off by heart.

we then got into a discussion about age... not sure how old he is but all he would say is nearly 30 and he knows im under 21 but he doesn't know how old (im actually 18) when he found out he said "we might just have to be friends because your going to get me into trouble" even thought its perfectly legal in the UK (the legal age is 16) but i said make sure you call me and he said he would...

so am i being 3 day-ed or do u think hes backing out because of the age gap? and if he doesnt ring me should i go back to the bar and see him again or just avoid it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No I do this all the time. In today's modern and busy life, I (or guys) assume women have other things to do too.... so I wait for her to call otherwise I think she's not interested. 

...I ain't paying for everything and making the calls too. It's one or the other.

unsure · Answer

I'm 31. There's a couple of things us guys look at. Your age means there's probably nothing more then sex there because dating is out the question. You still have the huge party stage and clubs die out in our age. Plus kind of awkward being the old guy dating the young girl (I don't think 30 is old but compared to 18 it is. 

Just for smashing purposes I got no problems hittin it.

. · Answer

Yeah, for some people age does matter (it matters to me)...you are a legal adult, but you're likely far behind (in Life) a 30 yr old and he may feel like the only thing you'd likely have in common would be sex (which is the primary reason guys his age tend to go for gals your age)...

He didn't call because he didn't call...we cannot know the specific reason, only he knows that...perhaps he's being realistic and doesn't see a future between the two of you, because you are at different points in your life...

Anonymous · Answer

HI THE GURL SASHA,,honey,,the guys a security guard,,more and likely his got a wife and kids,to support,,i would start dating other guys,cause any guy who turns down a 21 0r 18 year old girl,has got something to hide,,,PEACE N LOVE TO YOU..

Anonymous · Answer

No, but size does.

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