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If you really liked someone BUT...?

I have a really huge crush on someone but the thing is my crush is on my best friend. I have dated close friends and stayed very close with all of them after the break up but what if this time is different? Should I still pursue it especially since I don't know if my best friends feelings are mutual? And would writing an anonymous note and sticking it in their locker in order to see their reaction first on how I feel about them be a good idea?

Update:

Because my friend most likely is going to bring up the fact that he got the letter so I'd be able to ask him how he'd feel if someone told him that and then ease my way into telling him it was me.

Update 2:

Well, I get to school before him so I was going to put it in his locker. I normally sit in the front of the school and he passes me so I will know when he gets there and will be able to be there when he gets it as well but will act completely clueless as to how it got there.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Ask a friend to ask them how they feel about you.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should put an anonymous note in your own locker, which says something like: "[crush's name] fancies you." Then you can show them the note and see their reaction then (this is less obvious and means you'd be guaranteed to see their reaction, rather than them opening their locker when you're not there). You could make a hint after seeing their reaction, like "You know, I wouldn't mind going out with you."

    I think you're probably doing things right if you've stayed friends with people after reationships before. It's better to know something than not know something, and maybe he feels the same way about you.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I think that if you really like him, then you should go for it. :) If you guys are really that good of friends then you should be able to stay friends no matter what. If you have a cell phone, you could text him and ask him? :) Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Go for it ! and if he dont feel the same way at least you will know and wont regret anything, just make sure that after you dont seem to clingy or upset just be like---- umm... what feelings do you have for me,, if he replies just friends be like--- smile :) okaii at least you told me, friends then ask for a hug :)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i say go for it! friendship can always be restored as long as you guys dont cheat on eachother or anything like that......

    as for the anonymous letter, how will that help if he doesnt know its you?

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