why is my ex boyfriend texting me all of a sudden?

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okayy this is kinda really long so im sorry

okayy im sure many of your have seen me bring this situation up before but basically what happend is my ex boyfriend and i broke up because my friend (now ex- friend) broke us up and she started dating my now ex- boyfriend. then, i ended up dating that girl who now isnt my friend's ex boyfriend though we like eachother alot and come to find out that girl only dated my ex to try and make me jealous. so yea thats that but now theres this situation:

okay so today i was in class and one of my close friends asked me if i would be mad about her if she started talking to my ex and i told her that i had no prob with that because if thats what she wants to do then she can do it. so then she asked if she could give my ex my cell number and i said no because me and him ended on the worst terms ever and i dont like talking to him because he is a HUGE jerk! so i get out of class and i see i have a text message that says,"um i know you hate me but one thing i never got to say was im sorry about everything that happened between us...looking back it wasnt worth it so im sorry i hope that we can be friends since youre still cool with my sister and all" okayy so what does this mean?!?! im soo confused and then  told my current boyfriend about my ex texting me and he like flipped out and told me not to talk to him or get close to him because if i do hes gona think he has a right to talk to me and try to get close to me again. so idk a part of me wanted to be really cruel because my ex's girlfriend just broke up with him because she claimed that my boyfirend and i said my ex was flirting with another girl (which we didnt because my current boyfriend hates both of them because that girl is his ex and broke up with him for my ex...yes i kno its complicated but it wasnt intentional the whole "dating- each others- ex boyfriends- thing) so im just wondering what could him getting close to me again possibly mean?? and also is what my current boyfirend saying true?? also is it bad that i texted him back?? like while reveling in the feeling of getting the revenge i wanted and him getting a taste of his own medicine, i couldnt help but feel bad and me and him held a whole convo for like a hour...is this bad?? plz help!!

napoleoninragz · Accepted Answer

If you don't want to get caught up in any weird, freaky stuff, then I advise you to keep your ex at an arm's lenght. What could he be up to? Isn't it weird that he sent you a text message when the grown up thing to do would have been to talk to you, face to face? Can you be sure he's not just going to walk out on you again? Do you really want to throw away what you have now, for someone who let you down before? These are the questions you must ask yourself before you take any decision on this matter.

Ruth · Answer

You have to keep leaving her alone. If there's ANY hope for this relationship right now, it's only going to occur if you stop trying to cling to her and trap her. Read here https://tr.im/kxiAF 

If she sees you as a stalker, she feels that she cannot escape you. It's absolutely IMPOSSIBLE for her to value you and respect you when this is the case. There's a good chance it's too late already, but if there's even the smallest flicker of hope in her heart for you - you absolutely must stop sabatoging yourself like this! 

You need to drop off the map. Stop doing whatever you're doing. Stop trying to contact her. Yes, she will leave you alone too. Even if she does end up coming back to you, it will likely take the better part of a year before that happens. The reason for this is because she needs to develop a different opinion of you. She needs time to see that you're not the creepy, verbally abusive stalker that she had you pegged as. If she still cares, she will get in touch with you then. At that point, you may have gotten over her yourself. But either way, you need to stop trying to make something happen with your ex. This is something that you simply cannot control. Stop behaving out of desperation and let go.

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