How to tell a guy you're not ready to get married?

I want to pursue my career first. Or just be honest. I'm too young to get married.

Marriage isn't the main suitable for absolutely everyone. purely love would nicely be the main suitable and if it quite is not the proper time then why do it? you could not take lower back a life yet you could presently make selections approximately how that life and the lives of those in touch could be. good that abortion is out of the question. If she see's the being pregnant as a mistake then get up and kindly clarify that there is not any room for blunders and you sense the marriage today could be. If she does not see the being pregnant as a mistake then nevertheless clarify that there is not any room for blunders. This toddler's life is significant and so is yours and all human beings in touch. there is not any reason to stress issues that would later be painful and take greater years to recover from. clarify what it quite is to be a toddler from a divorced domicile. If compelled to marry then a divorce could be later and that would desire to be greater unfavourable than being in a marriage that replaced into compelled. clarify from the toddler's obtainable point of view. you're able to do this. have faith.

No matter what she says he is going to feel bad. However, if she isn't ready she shouldn't. It would hurt them both and his child more if she goes ahead and gets married and then leaves him in a few years. She should be honest, kind and firm. Just tell him she's too young. BTW, she is too young. I know people who got married at that age and are totally happy, but statistics will show you 19 is usually not old enough to take on the stress of marriage, much less a step child.

Yes, I love you but I am just not ready to get married yet. I want to postpone the wedding until I feel I am ready for marriage and a family. I hope you understand.

just be honest with him and tell him that you want to be the best wife possible when the time comes and that you think you need more time to prepare so you will have a successful marriage.

SHE NEEDS TO ASK HIM HOW HE IS GOING TO

1. PAY THE MORTGAGE ON A $200,000 HOUSE ALONG WITH INSURANCE, TAXES, UPKEEP

....HEATING AND AIR CONDITIONING

2. PAY FOR HER NEW MINI VAN WITH INSURANCE AND UP KEEP

3. PAY FOR GROCERIES, HAIR CUTS AND ENTERTAINMENT

4. PAY FOR GIFTS FOR HER AND HIS ENTIRE FAMILY FOR CHRISTMAS, BIRTHDAYS,

....GRADUATIONS, BABY SHOWERS ETC

5. PAY FOR HEALTH INSURANCE, AS WELL AS CHILD RAISING EXPENSES.......

SURELY I MISSED A LOT.....THESE ARE SOME OF THE BASICS.......

Ask her to just tell him if she loves her he will wait as long as it takes.

"Your not ready for marriage now" "Trust me". Stick to it.

a man knows a boy doesn't

I'm sure he will realize it soon, she'll probably mess up.