Wife cheated a few years back, now I feel like I have to see what is out there... should I follow my feelings?

you are making a huge mistake....

you accepted your wife but should not have, that is your first mistake.

involving another woman is wrong, because you will leave her and go back to your wife and feel terrible in the process.

eventually you will lose both women.

Ron:

It is time for a little payback to the little lady? What are your intentions? I could tell you that you are missing a lot, but it has to have some meaning to it. Women our age are looking for more than a one night stand or just sex. They want to have relationships and end there lives with someone they can relate to. If you are fine at home getting what you are getting you should stay right there and do what you are doing now and that is thinking about it. If you feel the nerve to just try another lady out for a test drive hire a hooker for a night. It is a lot less expensive and you do not have to worry about her calling you and wanting more from you. Good luck

Cheaters are often the most jealous and vindictive people when it comes to cheating. So, my advice, is make your decision carefully. If you just want to fool around, that's your business, but if you want to make the jump, make sure you don't get caught with the other woman before the divorce finalizes, because women who cheat, generally do it out of insecurity with themselves, and a need for attention, not sex.

In other words, what would get her more pity and attention from her friends and family and the judge than proof that you were cheating, and since she is an adulteress, she's going to be suspicious and more likely to go after you for it, because of her own insecurity.

If you're "falling in love with another woman" your wife believes you are cheating on her, in just that statement alone. If you wanna get laid and experience sex with another lady, do a hooker. If you have someone particular in mind, discuss it with your wife, a mutual understanding of she did and now you can OR go for the divorce conversation.

If you are not in love with your wife (and I can see why) you should get a divorce from her. She is standing in the way of you being able to have healthy relationships with other people. You'll also not have to sneak around if you divorce her.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

If your relationship was good, and secure, you would not be having these feelings. Find out what is really in your mind and heart and go from there.

You're not missing anything. Don't give up on what you have. It's no fun starting over. Remember, the grass always looks greener on the other side until you get the water bill.

Divorce her and explore the world..trust me there isnt much out there but trouble and heartache! Two wrongs don't make a right! Good luck

Bad idea. Please don't screw this up. You're messed up in the head because of what she did to you. Go take a cold shower and take your wife out on a date.

Sorry to hear that Ron....There will always be something your missing..but not all of it is good...

Be careful, you don't want to catch an STD