Ron

I stumbled into a woman whom I was totally in love in High School - we never talked to each other I was just mesmerized by her beauty. I have been married for 26 years and just looking at her pictures I just realized I have never had those feelings for my wife. She just accepted my friend request through facebook but have not started a conversation yet. I am 48 years old feeling like a teenager - anxious and do not even know how to start a conversation. I am as nervous as the only time I said hi to her.

I am not looking for an affair or anything but I have had the desire to tell her she was my muse and that she inspired me to write a few songs in the past. Should I even try to befriend her?

Every other question here is always a friend is going through this or that, a friend wants to cheat, what should I tell her???? I friend has an abusive husband... Why can't they say the jerk hits me when.... etc, etc. etc.

My wife cheated on me a few years back and said it was OK for me to get a one night stand - ONCE - would you even the score and tell her all about it? or Even the score anyway without her knowledge?

My wife cheated on me a few years ago, I forgave her but now I feel I am missing something. I am falling in love with another woman and I feel I need to see what is out there. I have had only one woman in my life and I think I am missing out something. I am 48 and can still perform very well frequently.