UTI always after sex?

the previous comments have good tips so I won't bother repeating them. I just wanted to add that in some special cases (possibly like yours) the doctor will prescribe a antibiotic to take immediatly after sex each time to prevent UTIs from developing. Talk to your doctor about your issues. They probably will suggest a lot of other stuff first but this might be your best option.

Just urinate immediately after sex. Having intercourse can irritate your urethera introducing bacteria to the opening. Maybe a change of position or lubricant can help. Peeing after will flush the track and usually if you don't have a UTI, urine is basically sterile. Also drinking cranberry juice (not "drink", JUICE) has natural antibiotics that cleans bacteria out of the bladder. You should be drinking lots of water too. In otherwords, drink and pee! Men don't usually have this problem because the urinarry track is so much longer, the bacteria will die before causing an infection. If you're douching, don't use the stuff they sell in a pack; they can irritate. You should be able to cleanse in the bath or use plain water if necessary. Mama is right about the anti-biotics. However, you should mention it to your doc cause you might not be getting the right meds. Hope this helps and Godloveya.

Try different condoms and different brand of lube. It is also important for him to be clean. If he is not practicing good hygiene then there is nothing than you may continue to get UTI's

Try a different kind of condom, one that's NOT latex based but animal skin based. It won't protect against STDs, but it will against pregnancy. You may have an allergy to latex.