My boyfriend is pushing me away?

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I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. Lately I've had a hard time trusting him staying faithful to me because he parties a lot. I started pushing him away because of this, but he didn't give up and we talked it out. I was good and I thought he was good too, until today. He is barely texting me, and I tried calling him and asking why he was being so short with me, but he hardly talked.

He wrote something on his blog right after we got off the phone, and he says he can feel himself pushing me away because he doesn't know how else to react about what we've been fighting about recently. In his blog entry he says, "I just need you to show me you're gonna fight back, like I did."

I don't know what else to do other than try to call him and get him to talk, but I doubt that'll work because he never talks about how he's feeling.

What can I say to get him to stop pushing me away?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

tell him how you really feel about him and ask him what can i do to make things right between us? re trace your fight with him and figure out where he may be getting this feeling from. and tell him i cant help and change if you wont tell me whats wrong and what i need to do to change it

hello · Answer

you need to get him to talk to you
tell him your trying to fight here and if he dosnt cooperate what does that say about it!?!?

hes ina relatioship and is a big boy now and should satrt acting like one

Bill · Answer

Break up with him. You can do better than that instead of dealing drama.

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