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What should I do when my husband just doesn't try to spend time with me?
He is unemployed and every day he's gone all day and doesn't come back till after midnight or close to midnight. I know he's with his friends close by, he's been helping them with wood and everything but I just feel like his friends are #1 priority and I don't know what to do to get him to see that it just seems we are going farther and farther apart.
By the way I do have hobbies! That's not the problem!
9 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Tell him you want to spend some time with him. Be specific about your expectations.
When that doesn't work, tell him you married him to spend time WITH him ... and ask him if he wants to still be married., because you didn't get married to be alone.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Probably lost interest in you. You should try being "made up" for him, like dress sexy and provacatively - something which causes him to look and stare jaw dropped. If that doesn't spark anything then it's time for a divorce because he's cheating or he's turned gay with his friends.
- 1 decade ago
Schedule a date with him. Tell him you are feeling a distance between the two of you and you would like to spend time with him. If he "forgets" then find your own life. He may find you more interesting if you don't want to be around him.
- Sue BLv 71 decade ago
I'd get a job if I didn't have one, or take up some new hobbies and try and not show that I was missing him
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Get a hobby. You can't expect hiom to spend all his time with you, that isn't realistic. He is perfectly entitled to - and indeed NEEDS - time on his own and with his friends. You need the same.
- Grandma's WisdomLv 61 decade ago
if you make him feel bad as a man.. then he is going to stay away... when you pump him up and tell him he can do any and everything.. he will come come and be with you
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I dont think he is spending all that time with friends. Follow him around I think he is cheating!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
be more entertaining he will then spend more time with you
- Anonymous1 decade ago
maybe you should look for someone to hang around with
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