Which was this movie?

There was this father who couldn't let his son be free in some way, I can't remember the exact story... but there was this other man, who wanted to explain to the father that he should let the boy be free. But the father was scared that this other man will take his son away of him.

So the other man got a leaf of a rose and put it into the hand of the father and told him - this is your son. Now I will blow and he will fly out of your hand, stop it if you can. So the man blew, but the father closed his fist tight and said - you couldn't blow the leaf away. The other man said - well - open your hand - you smashed it...

So that's all I can remember from the movie - do you know which on it was?

Thanks.