How do I tell him what I found out?

Well it sounds like there are some trust issues here!

Do you want to be with a guy who lied to you for this long about something so monumental!?! I sure as hell would reconsider my relationship in that situation.

So he broke your trust in lying to you for 7 months, and you broke his trust in snooping through the drawer. What I would do is just bring it up, like "So, what's your kid's name" and then he doesn't have time to deny or explain. Just let him know that you know. If he asks, tell him about how you found out. What really matters here though is that he's been lying to you about everything (being a virgin!??) for the last 7 months, leading you to believe he was someone he isn't.

He was likely scared to tell you. Just let him know you support him, but since you are pregnant by him, this is now an issue that should also concern you as it could affect his financial position, as well as you child has a sibling. He might also be getting denied access to the child and does not know what to do about it. Give him these links to help address all these issues.

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http://childsupportquiz.childsupportrights.org/

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I think he was scared to tell you because he thought you might leave him. I would sit him down when he gets home one day and make sure he is in a good mood! I would say "(name), I saw the piece of paper when I was putting your laundry away. How come you lied to me? I thought you trusted me!" and see what he says. Good luck!

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Talk to him.

Say, 'i saw the papers' and ask him to explain.

if he asked why you went through his drawers say something like

'im sorry, i saw you put it in the drawer, and i looked at it. but we

shouldn't have secrets should we?, so i thought it wouldn't matter if i saw it, !'

Good Luck :) :)