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How to get a boyfriend?
I'm a fifteen year old girl. I'm average, not ugly, not overweight, but not super skinny or pretty. I've had a couple boyfriends, but since moving to a new city, I've been completely ignored by the guys, like I was the ugliest thing in the world. No one wants to be anything more than friends with me, and it's very demoralizing. I don't know what to do. I'm not sexy or fun and I don't really have any assets to work with. I need advice, guys what do you look for in a girl? girls, how do you get a guy? Thanks for your help.
I used to be very confident, but after a while, being ignored by all the guys has made me a lot more self-conscious and just plain miserable.
7 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well first off, thinking that you dont have any assets to work with is probably a big part of it. Guys like confidence and girls that put themselves out there. Flirting and dating is a two-way street. This will probably sound annoying, but the moment you stop looking for a boyfriend is when you'll get one. Have fun, hang with friends, do stuff you like to do. You'll meet a guy.
Source(s): Life - Anonymous1 decade ago
I'm 15 too and I totally get where your coming from. Just don't worry about it too much. The more you worry about it, the less likely it's going to happen. Don't focus all your time and energy on boys, seriously, they only end up hurting you. Just keep your mind on whats important in life like doing good in school, and if a guy happens to come by then great. Don't go out of your way to find love because then it will just avoid you. It's really true how things work that way. Just try to be yourself and be confident because if you don't like yourself then how is anyone else going to? But really, boys are not the most important thing no matter how important having a boyfriend seems. Good Luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You should be more positive and open to things. Get a new style and maybe this might caught their attention. Be friendly and always look your best. Good Luck!
- 1 decade ago
Guys can see that your not confident... that in itself is a huge turn off
try and be confident and you will attract the guys
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Just have confidence!
Guys find it sexy when a girl is confident.
=)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
start flirting around and dress a bit provocatively
