should i contact my ex bf or not?

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yes i know it sounds silly to ask this today. but my ex bf haven't talked in 1 year. he was in the army and tonight he is coming home christmas and in the spring he is starting in college. the thing our relationship ended in january 2009, while he was in korea for a year. we didn't date that long and we didn't break up on bad terms, he claimed that he couldn't handle a long distance relationship. even after the break up we hardly talked. but then last november (2009) when fort hood got attacked, i decided to call him since he was stationed there and he was so happy to hear from me. then 3 weeks later, i texted him asking how he has been since the shooting..but no got answer. but still to this we don't talk. but do you think it's ok to contact him? especially since it's the holidays now.

Update:

this is the text i wanna send him: Hi Andy. It's michelle. Just thought I would wish you a Merry Christmas and welcome home.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yes I think you should good luck and Merry Christmas

trivedi · Answer

i think of explanation why a woman could touch her ex is via the fact she's no longer over him, and nonetheless feels something for him. looking on how long you 2 have been cut up up her emotions for you may nonetheless be reliable. As to why she isn't responding that is no longer ordinary to assert. It purely could be something like she's busy, has to paintings, flow to type, or forgot her cellular telephone stuff like that (assuming that your speaking via way of textual content fabric). Now the different clarification for why she hasn't endured to speak to you is that she messaged you and then undergo in ideas something which you probably did in the process the direction of your dating that the two harm, or angered her, or the two for that remember. the two way in case you quite desire to be acquaintances or whichever that is terrific to enable her come to you. there may be some extra situations the place she will have the potential to touch you, and not respond, or she would possibly never touch you back in any respect. usual purely chatting along with her while she responds probably would help your concern.

ldp · Answer

If you number has not changed then let him contact you
I am sure your address is the same so if he is interested he will find you
He went to a foreign country and fight he can find you if he wants to

Anonymous · Answer

Hi,

When in doubt about something ask yourself, WHAT'S THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN?

I think that should answer it.

Good Luck.

Take care.

sweetie078807 · Answer

Yeah, I think it'd be a good thing to at least try :)

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah,that would be good.

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