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lolaball
lolaball asked in Politics & GovernmentLaw & Ethics · 1 decade ago

Is this harrassment.am i asking for trouble?

if i emailed someones family telling them their brother.husband.son,nephew etc is having an affair.could i get done with harrassment?

Bearing in mind,i told his wife he was cheating and they called the police on me.i did not even get into trouble they just had to say a complaint had been made.The guy in question is sending me lots of threatning texts as are his friends.my phone rings in the middle of the night most nights witheld number so i was thinking of sending an inonamous email telling ewveryone as noone knows what he is up to.i want to hurt him like he has hurt me but i do not want to get into trouble.he is a serial sociopath and is already looking for his next victim.

Update:

yes i am the one he had an affair with but i did not know he was married.he told me nothing but lies and he was destroying me.he was draining all the goodness from me whilst he was getting fatter on my misery and pain but i was in love.when i found out he was married.i went to her not out of badness but to tell her.she deserved better,he needed to know what he was doing was wrong.and then all the lies came pouring out,he had a different name.address.everything the whole him was a fake he had used me.and to cover his tracks he lied to his wife and she stupidly believes him over me.i want his whole family to know what he has done and hes meant to be a good muslim boy!!. but i cannot get into trouble and if telling all his family will get me charged then i cannot do it.

Update 2:

FOR Livin life and silver 44:

i am the nicest caring person u cud meet.i have had my heart ripped out.shredded and stomped all over.the emotional abuse i endured has destroyed me, and i DID NOT KNOW HE WAS MARRIED.i am no cheat and b4 you jump in there and think im the bad one .get your facts right ok! id never ever go near a maried man so before you think im the nasty one no i am not.i told his wife out of goodness.he would not leave me alone.i was on the verge of a breakdown for all he was doing but was dependant on him so i told her as she deserved better.he needed help and i needed to protect myself and end it OK!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    If all you did was send one e-mail and they are doing all of this it sounds like you are the one being harrassed. Save the texts and phone numbers and go to the police about them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hi hunny, it sounds to me like you best leave this be. As you stated that he is sending you nasty and threatening messages it should be you that goes to the police and show them the evidence, also contact your phone provider and let them know that you are getting nuisance calls, they can trace the numbers back and pass this to the police too. As far as him having an affair, that is down to him and his wife to sort out, I am guessing and I apologise if I am wrong that you were the lady that he was seeing. If that is the case count your blessings that he is no longer in your life, and keep away from him, if he continues to contact you as I say keep all evidence and take it to the police.

  • ?
    1 decade ago

    I'd call the police. They can provide protection for you against this guy. Even if the guy makes a complaint against you, I doubt they'd do anything for an email if they somehow found out. An email and a phone call isn't harassment unless it's threatening, overwhelming (it's done over and over again), or bullying. Since his calls have been threatening, you could do something about it law enforcement wise.

  • xiahoudun8521
    1 decade ago

    If you do this make sure you get a restraining order right after. Freedom of speech should protect you this time, but it's only a thin line to slander if you can't prove it. I'd suggest getting a friend to sleep with him and film it. Than post it online.

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  • silver44fox
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    you seem to be a very nasty person ,lots of people get hurt but they don't go on a vendetta to get even with the one that hurt them.the sayings are what goes around comes around.and most people who do evil will beget evil.get on with your life .the wife of this person is probably aware of his philandering ways .and as long as he comes back to her she is reasonably happy.if you put nasty things on the internet without proof of what you are saying ,you can get done for slanderous accusations.there is no such thing a anonymous e-mails .they can be traced by experts..

  • livin life
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    like the other poster said.mind your own business.You sound like you are the one hurt, it would have been his wife who was hurt if he was messing around, which I take was with you..you should have been smart enough to not get mixed up with a married guy....keep out of it.

  • WRG
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    If you can't prove your statement you could get into LOTS of trouble. Just get on with your life.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Protip: Mind your own business

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