How do you feel beautiful and ignore society's 'perfect girl' image?

I... completely agree. If you're pale and you know it (and are proud of it) clap your hands! HAHAHA

Seriously though, it's a shame. I'm somewhat Swedish and have fair skin because of it. Will you ever see me go into a tanning salon, or even getting a spray tan? Absolutely not! I'm proud of my heritage!

(it's a shame, because Demi Lovato was originally pale, as because of her part Italian heritage, and yet she goes and gets a tan. Some ppl may think I take this too far, but it's all a part of accepting and being proud of the way God made you!)

I also agree with the fact that you're scared about wearing shorts and stuff without anything underneath, I feel the same way. I think a lot of it has to do that A. You're not comfortable in your own skin YET, or B. You're afraid of what ppl might think.

Ya just gotta let go! haha seriously! If people point and laugh, ignore them, or smile at them. It's best too walk with pride and dignity than to be down at their level. :)

Have a great day! :)

I like myself and think I'm beautiful. It's not hard to ditch so-called society's opinion.

Think about it.

It might amaze you how many people don't think about you at all or wouldn't look at you strangely if you wore shorts or skirts....they're too busy with their own lives, their own worries, their own selves.

I don't know where you get the idea that "society" has a "perfect girl image" and has pressure over you. The media perpetuates this myth....and it is a myth.

Real people do not think this way. No one does. It's just a falsehood that some people buy into because they can't accept themselves the way they are, they have no sense of self esteem or worth.

No one and nothing can have power over you or pressure you to do anything if you don't want to.

YOu have your own mind...so start using it.

If you like yourself, then be yourself.

What do you think will happen if you wear shorts or a skirt? Honestly. What will happen?

Nothing.

You will go on with your day and that will be it.

If you don't believe in that image....then you wouldn't be afraid to wear shorts or a skirt. Work on your self image, self esteem and realize your worth. You don't owe anyone anything. Be yourself. The more confidence you have, none of this will matter and people will be drawn to you.

Just realize that God made you beautiful just the way you are :)

You don't have to measure up to anyone else

Be the person you want to be. Beautiful inside and out.

Wear clothing that makes you feel pretty and makes you have confidance.

Wear make-up that highlights your eye color.

I know how hard it is to get past that superficial feel, but once you truly act out your true personality and not try to measure up to anyone else, then maybe it will be easier for you..

--i'm so sorry if that doesnt make any sense- but im really trying to help :)

No one is perfect.

But every girl is beautiful in her own way.

I used to think i was really ugly, mainly because i wear glasses.

Loads of people tell me how pretty i am, and i take it as a compliment.

Whenever i used to wear shorts or a skirt ild have to wear tights or leggings with the because i hated my legs and i am pale.

But now, i think to myself, if i like what im wearing, and i feel comfortable, does it really matter what other think? No it doesnt.

I really cant stand these fake *** girls who think they are the perfect girl.

Theres loads at school and believe me they are the biggest bitches you could ever meet in your life.

I choose not to be fake, i like to be natural.

Natural is beautiful, i just wish every girl could see that.

I think pale women are attractive and I think them wearing shorts/shirts is very hot.

Everyone's got their own unique shape and form. And if you think about the last time you saw someone wearing a small amount of clothes, you didn't think they were that attractive right? Just wear what you think is comfortable, be confident, and there is no way that someone could look down on you for it.

I personally don't care what people think, there is no REAL image of what a woman should look like i think if you are going to wear something you should feel good in it and not care what other people think.