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Will a domestic dispute go on my record?
I'm in Michigan and had a little dispute between my mother, her boyfriend and I. No one was arrested. They just basically told me to calm down and there was nothing I could do.
Now, does this go down on my record, as in if someone wants to do a background check on me for a job or housing or anything, will it come up that the police were called to my house one evening for a domestic dispute?
I know the police will have our information down just in case something else happens but just need to know if anyone does a background check on me, if this is on my record.
Thank you very much
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
The police dept. that dealt with your issue will have a record of the dispute on their in house computer, they most likely did an incident report. However, there will be no official record that someone could find through a background check. Unless someone was issued a restraining order or received a summons or was arrested there is no official record through the court system.
- Anonymous5 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
No. Generally the only problem you will have is if you get arrested.
However, if you are going for something with extremely high security clearance they may find out. I'm not sure how long your police department keep that information. You may ask. Generally if you explain why you are asking they don't mind helping you. It should go without saying to be polite when you ask.
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