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Boys dont show interest in me?

im a 14 yr old girl and i have never had a boyfriend, boys dont even show interest in me and if they do, they're much older. Boys in my class dont show interest in me either. Is it me or is it them? Please tell me coz the way they dont show interest in me really lowers my self esteem

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Actually, most women are flattered by a man's interest if it is shown in an appropriate manner (and if both people are single). But women can easily be scared off if it is too much; most of us have had a stalker or some overly aggressive attention at some point and that makes us wary if too much interest is shown too soon. We can actually be in physical danger if some overly aggressive guy gets the wrong idea, and then get blamed for "leading him on" if we had shown any interest to begin with. So we have to be careful. So here's my advice. Express your interest in a subtle manner such as prolonged eye contact, smiling, etc, and if that gets a positive response you can slowly move up from there, with more overt flirtation, etc. If at any point it does not get a response, back off. This way you're not setting up yourself up for rejection, either. It's much easier to back down when your flirting doesn't get a response than go full out declaring your feelings for her and get shot down. So just take it slow and see if she's interested and reciprocates at each level before you step it up. Best wishes.

  • 1 decade ago

    Be patient with yourself. You are only 14 years of age. I know it's very hard to see other girls with boyfriends, but they are rushing into life. Take the time and enjoy life! You have plenty of years for boys. If you have low self esteem, get some self help books, talk to your school counselor or minister, seek out new hair styles or make up ways. There are all kinds of magazines and web-sites that show "how to" do your hair or facials. First learn to like yourself and be yourself, focus on your studies in school and a good future. The guys will come and ask you out when you least expect it! Be friendly and speak to the guys. Time will tell!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    youre 14. chill out. its not a big deal. just smile and enjoy time with your friends. guys will eventually show interest in you if youre nice and pretty. be cool and dont be impatient

  • 1 decade ago

    I've had the same problem. It just means he right one hasn't come along yet. I'm fifteen now and I have a boyfriend. Don't worry you'll find someone who's right for you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    and girls don't show interest in me.so lets show our interests to each other.

    Source(s): LMAO
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