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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Did my husband get an erection when he saw a friend's naked bum when they bent over?

We had another woman stay with us briefly and when they were alone she decided to load her clothes washing into the dryer wearing just a top. My husband saw her naked bum and he thought 'we could have sex now'. He said he didn't get an erection, but I don't know whether to believe him as he did admit to being attracted to her.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Melody, consider carefully your friendship with this lady who will gladly show her bum to your husband? She cant be trusted at all. I think your husband could have got aroused (erection) but he hadnt asked her to remove her clothes and he probably didnt act upon it. Dont allow her in your house again she is creating mischief and misery for you!

  • Sandra
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Seinfeld had this exact thing happen to George Castanza on the Seinfeld Show. Tell your husband not to worry. When a man is cold, the penis is small. When a man is relaxed, the pecker is small too. Most guy's peckers will shrink when cold and in cold water, so it is just how the pecker works. If the girl's need to have verification, have a tupperware party and have your husband come out sporting a full on ***** and let the girls see for themselves. If your husband will not do this, I will.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would be more worried about the other woman's intentions. It was not by accident that she showed her naked bums to your husband. Plus. if he did not get an erection, would cause further worries.

  • 1 decade ago

    I wouldn't of had sex right then either but it is a automatic reaction almost. AS long as he didn't act on it with her you just have to suck it up. Sorry it sucks but dwelling on the fact that he got a erection from seeing a woman is pointless.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well, you asked for it when you allow another woman to stay with you guys.

    You can't force him to not have an erection. If you do not want that to happen, don't let women stay at your house.

    BTW, your friend sounds like a **** for walking around half naked in your house.

  • 1 decade ago

    So, what if he did as long as he is getting it from you. Men cannot always control what their man downstairs does. So, pretty much as long as he is not acting on it with her there is no issue.

    BTW, I think that it is really strange that she was going around your house half naked. That makes her seem like perhaps she may have been up to something like trying to seduce your husband. I would take another look at your friendship if I were you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't know if he got an erection or not. I don't believe him simply finding her attractive is cause for concern, as long as he didn't entertain any thoughts of cheating on you. Him being committed to you doesn't make all other women unattractive.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    How are we to know if he got an erection or not...we weren't there? But if he thought she was attractive, then probably.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why are you asking this??? He likely did. Are you accusing him of cheating because he got an erection?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    So what? He cant control his erections, but he CAN control his eyes!

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