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Getting rid of my Mother's problematic love interest?
Let me give you a little background on my situation. My mom has been dating this guy off and on for about 7 months. In this time, he has cheated on her multiple times, been fired from his job (she's been supporting him financially as a result), ran back to his ex of 13 years (which, I suppose, also goes hand-in-hand with cheating on her).
He's a complete slime ball, and I hold contempt for him for everything he's done to my Mother. The issue at hand is that she keeps taking him back despite the slew of transgressions I listed above. My Mother is morbidly terrified of being alone and allows him to slither his way back into her life as a result. She isn't in the least bit happy, and he causes her more pain than happiness.
A few things to note:
- He has a few warrants for his arrest
- He has $250,000 - $300,000 worth of back taxes from the last 10 years
- He routinely drives while under the influence of alcohol (I've got an anonymous DUI tipline for that)
It has come to the point where I need to find something to drive him out of her life. I would like to ask you guys what you think the right course of action for me would be. Another important thing to note is that I live with my Mom (I'm only 18), and I've had a front row seat to their tumultuous relationship for nearly a year now.
Edit: I'm pretty sure his failure to pay any of his taxes for the last 10 years is something the IRS would look into. Could anyone shed some light on this?
Talking to my Mom is out of the question. She has made it very clear that my attempts to influence her decisions are completely futile, which is why I'm exploring 'alternative' means of getting rid of him.
It does not matter how many people tell her that he's lying and manipulating her. She has repeatedly taken him back despite how he treats her.
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I really wish I knew what to say to help you :(
Try sitting her down and talking to her, and let her know that you love her and that is why you are bringing it up.
Part of me wants to tell you to help the police find him, but if your mother still hasn't let go she will still run to him in prison and all.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It sounds like he will be in jail soon, so you may not have to worry about him being around anymore. If you want to speed the process up, you could call the police the next time he goes out in his car under the influence of alcohol or something too.
- kirlinLv 44 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
find conclusive evidence, that you will than hand into the police and get him taken away :) or take a restriction order against him :) im doing a similar thing with my father :)
