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Is this a sign that my marriage is failing?
Ok, so my husband and I met on a blind date. We fell in love instantly. Literally it was one of those things that never happens. But because there was so much magic, there also was a lot of sex. In turn, I got pregnant. So we moved in together. About a later we got married. Now our baby is about 8 months old, and we still love each other, but we bump heads all the time. We don't fight everyday or anything like that, but its more like, we don't agree with each other as much. He used to think I could do no wrong, but now we have agreed the sometimes we would like space. Now, I'm finding out that we have really big differences in how we see things, like religion, family. You know all the things that you should have found out about a person before you let them get you pregnant. I really love my husband, and he loves me but I am realizing that we are not the same as it was. Can someone tell me if these are signs of unstableness, or is it normal to experience this within the first year of marriage.
On a side note, an arranged marriage is not an option for me as I was born in America to american parents. Please don't take it the wrong way, but who was supposed to arrange my marriage. Was it my single mother or his. Lets just be honest, that doesn't work in this kind of society unless, you're within a culture that still arranges marriages. Fortuneately for me, I'm not from one of those.
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- TaureanLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
This is a result of loving a person fats before knowing him completely. In circumstances like these it is always better to have an arranged marriage as the parents shall be looking for all the pros and cons before selecting a suitable match for their son/daughter.
- jenkLv 51 decade ago
From what I've read, I see nothing wrong at all and everything that's happening is completely normal and is expected in a relationship. It's natural that you are slowly discovering that you are both more different than similar from the other. So my only advice to you is that if the two of you still love each other, well then you two have to work very hard on maintaining this bond that you have with each other for both of your sakes and the sake of your little one.
- ObserverLv 61 decade ago
You put too much attention on your baby. You neglected your husband's needs.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
okay NOW YOU HAVE TO BUILD "UNDERSTANDING"
once u build understanding then ur marriage will be bliss
stop thinking of failure so soon BE POSITIVEEEEEEEEE