Yes I have "lots" of children and ...?

because people are ignorant. Just because you have a big family does not mean you collect government assistance at all!!! I want 3-4 kids myself and my husband and i will be the ones supporting them. Money may be tight--but we make it :)

Don't let the small minded, think they know it alls get to you!

Well i would tell those small minded people to keep there noses out what it got to do with them i wish my husband would let me have a 4th lol both me and my husband work and have lovely home and we could afford another one but he wont :-( your not the worse hun and don't listen to other people my friend has just had her 8&9 th children and he husband works so is supporting them where on the other hand i know someone who has 5 children and does not work neither her or her husband and it really gets my goat. So well done you and just remember your bringing your kids up with morals not like some.

If you both working and your children are being raised by your own money, why do you bother about what people says?

The link below is just only if you are struggling with money and big family.

No people that may need the help is not white trash. My sister and her husband had lost their jobs around the same time because of today's society. So they get help with until they can get back on their feet. they were doing just fine until they lost their jobs. so maybe you should just go **** yourself and leave those comments to yourself.

everyone judges something and people assume with big families theyre on benefits etc but its not your problem its theirs let them think what they want you know the truth, dont let it get to you i wouldnt.

Why do you call your children, them? Just stop moaning and get on with your life.

People need to mind their own business....HATERS. Enjoy your kids and your life.people are nosy and stupid sometimes......

because it doesn't occur to them that people's circumstances are different.

Because they want your life.

i dont think most people think that way