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should i let him or give him a chance?
i'm so confused and lost. i just don't know what to do. i dated a guy in the army(he's from my area) and tomorrow will be 2 years ago that he broke up with me. when he broke up with me he said that i can find someone better than him and that he's not ready for a long distance relationship. after that we hardly talked. then november 2009 his base (fort hood got attacked). i called him and he was happy to hear from me. but after that again no talking. then this past christmas he came home (now he's out of the army for good) and he's going to college (actually the one i went to). so on christmas i texted him and he answered within minutes. 20 minutes later he called me and we talked. i told him what i'm up to nowadays and he seemed very happy. at the end he said "it was nice talking to you." then every week or so we would text. the last time we texted was january 5th and so last night i decided to call him. but he didn't answer. today i was on facebook and it showed he was on facebook (last night). so i don't know..should i let him go for good or wait for him to call?
good point 1st answer: but he wasn't in iraq, he was in korea
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- DogoLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
You gotta understand here, that being in the army is a very emotionally demanding job. If he expreinced any traumatic thing, and he is just coming back from war, or Iraq and from being attacked, he might just want to be by himself for a while. When you get into situations where people are killing, including you, and your seeing death all around it really messes with you. So let him be, give him space. He may avoid large gatherings or crowds or any places where it could be loud. He may develop a habit of being anti social and might attracted a drug or drinking habit. Just be there for him, as a friend or a partner. Don't push him. Just be there for him. You have no idea what he has been through.
Source(s): Both Grandpas where in the army/war. My father was in the navy, my older brother was in the army/Iraq and my little brother is in army. - kealeyLv 44 years ago
As i became into examining, i became into thinking slightly, 'provide him a 2nd possibility'. yet then after greater examining and considering the fact that his family members isn't supportive to him, or you, i'm able to truly get the bigger photograph. they want you to take accountability of him and could make you sense guitly to realize this.....'reason they dont want the interest'! -they be attentive to what he's like!!! No way. enable his family members step as much as the plate in the event that they are so 'fearful' for him....then you definately and him can artwork out your alterations, with distance! and you'd be conscious him from a distance and comprehend....he hasnt replaced. you be attentive to, i'm merely approximately 50 and that i'm able to enable you be attentive to that's extremely uncommon for a guy that strikes a woman, to ever end....till per possibility he gets previous and weaker. Your guy has actual deep seated anger subject concerns that did no longer bypass away merely as a results of fact he spent it sluggish at the back of bars!
