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What does it mean when a guy does this even though he is in a relationship?
He is a friend of my pal, and I hardly know him, maybe for 6 months, we hardly talk. We went down to some bars and clubs two nights ago, and I flirted non verbally with him, he picked up on this and touched my sides, my collar bone,brushed away my hair, and held my hand, at different points in time throughout the night.. but as the night went on less of this occurred, til we parted ways - as if nothing happened. We did not talk about it since.
What does this mean? even while he has a girlfriend... Am I supposed to take this seriously or was he just flirting back? I think he's a bit slow, because I asked him at one point 'Don't u have a girlfriend?' and his response was 'Yeah..why?' ._. I don't want to ask him, I feel as if its a game of cat and mouse here, but should I really expect anything from some guy who's taken?
thing is I am not expecting him to come onto me again, not looking for a relationship with him, i suppose it was just because I wanted to flirt with him. I suppose he could be a cheater, but I don't believe thats the case with me, and I'm not really concerned much if he is, cause I know I won't get involved with a taken guy. Its probable he's in an open relationship, cause I know him to be open that way, but i can't seem to understand the response from him itself, why? and what does it mean? and its eating at me! what should I do?
6 Answers
- Tom KLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
If flirting is wrong, then why were YOU flirting with him if you knew he had a girlfriend? You started it but now trying to place fault on him. I don't get it. Nevertheless, it's just harmless flirting. Who cares? And apparently he see it the same way. His response was quite natural and not "slow" at all. "Slow" is experiencing a single flirtation while out clubbing and drinking and then wondering if it is "serious".
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Wisdom- dont get involved with a man already in a relationship especially if hes flirting or coming onto you. Think about it, what does this say about his commitment to his girlfriend, value of her but also his value of you? If you became his girlfriend whose not to say that he could do the same with another woman? You deserve better than that so dont get involved nor emotionally attached to him and just move on.
- 1 decade ago
no you shouldn't expect anything as he's taken and if anything does happen between the two of you you would be responsible for their break up, put yourself in his girlfriends shoes and think about how you would feel! I think that you shoulld forget about the entire episode and pretend nothing happened and find yourself a guy who is single
- 1 decade ago
I think he is a cheating piece of crap! Forget about him,he obviously can't even respect his own girlfriend
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- LunachitLv 61 decade ago
nah. he sounds like a douchebag. if you want to try to date a douche bag, then go for it.