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I've made a vow of celibacy, what are your thoughts? ;)?

After seeing the movie '40 days and 40 nights' it made me think this movie has quite a deep meaning other than just being a romantic comedy flick. just like in the movie, I've been betrayed by a girl and it has been on my mind for a while, I hav dated other girls and gone out, but nothing seems to fill my emptiness.

I would really like to meet a nice girl, but without the sex, because sex really does complicate matters (i never thought i'd ever say it), so I am abstaining from anything sexual, kissing, rubbing, masturbation, sex for 40 days just like in the movie. right now I'm up to day 5 lol and i know it's early in the process, but i feel so at peace with the world, and as long as u keep preoccupied and busy, it doesn't make me feel sexually frustrated at all!!!! I feel empowered actually, like, i connect to girls in a more meaningful way than just being shallow and sexual u know?? and i found girls are good to talk to. so what are your thoughts?? do u think i can really abstain for 40 days (I'm not even sure lol) and has anybody ever tried this? by the way, I'm 18 at my sexual peek and with the hormones and everything (so this is going to be tough i know) lmao

Update:

oh!!!! and any tips?????

and please i already got one negative comment, please no more :)

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Good for you? If it's really what you want to do, then do it. It's probably not going to be easy, but nothing that's worthwhile ever is.

    If you do have a setback, admit it and start the 40 day process over. Try to see what went wrong and avoid it if at all possible. Best thing I can recommend to you is to avoid being alone with any young ladies that strike your fancy. If you're alone, you will be tempted to have sex or do something sexual with her.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    My husband & I waited until we wed to Consummate our relationship. We did not regret this and had more trust and respect for each other for the wait. Hormones were very strong and it was difficult and not a breeze.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I am 20 I've never had sex. Yeah, if I can do it why can't you.Try waiting till marriage. That would be way better!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    rofl i guess the only one you hurt in this is yourself... go for it

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