I got raped by a man when I was drunk.?

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I am a 19 years man. I was so drunk at a party that I got rapped by a older man. I was unable to protect myself as I was too drunk. I couldn't even walk on my feet that I was so drunk. This man offered me ride home after the party but instead he took me over to his place and raped me. I was fast asleep when he took me to his place and by then it was too late. He raped me more then once that night. Next day when I woke up I found myself naked on his bed with him lying beside me. I was really embarrassed and sad. He tried to comfort me and made me breakfast. He even apologized to me and asked me not to say this to anyone. I try to forgot what had happened to me but its really hard. I don't know what to do. I like girls and not man. Please help and please don't post stupid comments. Thanks!

Update:

I don't want it to be exposed in the public. I don't want other to know about it. I did get myself checked and I am all clean. Thank you all for your posts. I just want to try and forgot about it

SammyCal · Accepted Answer

Chalk it up to experience and as a lesson on why you should never be out of control due to alcohol or drugs.

If it bothers you mentally, go see a therapist.

Anonymous · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Rape is rape. Report him to the police at once. And get checked out ASAP for STDs. Then ask Social Services or your family doctor for a referral to a therapist who deals with victims of sex crimes.

Also, make a note never to get that drunk and vulnerable again. Overindulgence of any kind has its consequences.

Anonymous · Answer

Take our word for it. You are not gay. You were not physically harmed. You were raped. Maybe if you went with a girl she might feel the same way. Put it into a locker and throw away the key. In your mind, of course. Life is like that. Pity you mucked up so easily, though. You may have enjoyed yourself.

jejos · Answer

it is never ok to be raped and it is never your fault even if you were drunk.  Don't feel bad, I'm  survivor as well but I never reported my crime.  I didn't because it was a "gray rape" and there was never any evidence to convict the guy so he has walked free, but it drives me crazy whenever I think of it.  You should definitely go to the police, they will find the guy and get you justice.  The first step to healing.

? · Answer

i would call the police and have a rape kit done.
they can trace the man down by seminal fluids, sweat, tears, hairs, urine anything, they will find him you just got to go to the police

Violent Rainbow · Answer

Shouldn't have accepted to ride then now should you

SweetHomeAlabama · Answer

u have to report it man
u can't let it go like that
this kinda people sud be punished
standup for it!!!

Anonymous · Answer

call the police now

Anonymous · Answer

Why don't I believe you? =&#92;

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