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Help! There's three girls who are always mean to me? What would YOU do?

I do street dance every week, and I used to really like it - but one day these three girls joined about three months ago. They stand behind me in the warm up and the actual dance we are doing at the moment.

At first I thought they were just giggly - they kept laughing and whispering behind me. Then - I started to hear bits of what they were saying; they said things like: 'Oh my god - what is she doing?' and 'Look at her - she's such a weirdo!'

And then, I went into the loo one lunchtime, and I saw the three girls there - and they were talking to some of their other friends, and they were saying: 'There's this girl at our dance class who stands in front of us - she is sooooooo fat!'

Now, I'm really image conscious, and this really hurt my feelings and knocked my confidence.

They just won't stop!!!!!!!

Does anybody have any suggestions? How can I stop/ignore them?

Please tell me what YOU would genuinely do in this situation.

Many thanks - anything is much appreciated!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    well when they're there, you can go about it in a few ways

    getting back on them :-

    when in school bring a friend or go to your dance with a friend and just do what they do laugh at them and whisper shizz, it doesn't really matter what aslong as it gets their attention and makes them feel bad.

    confront them :- ask what their problem is, and or tell them if they don't like it they can f**k the hell off.

    patronize them :-

    i.e "oh ________ i love your dancing its so coooooool, i wish i cud jump around and my boobs would pop out of my shirt like yours do"

    etc

    cat fight :- confrotation then, beat em up (i don't advise this but its usually very funny to watch.) :3

    hope it get's sorted i had the same problem as you, and i chose patronizing and cat fight they worked pretty well but all of these are quite good. :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Just tell them that you like what you are doing and people come in different sizes and shapes.That if they can't respect that then they are rude and nasty at heart.Perhaps they are just jealous because you dance better than them.Don't let them get you down , be proud of who you are as people can just be plain cruel and don't think of others feelings.

  • 1 decade ago

    confront them and dont lighhsten to them ok? there stupid imature girls who think that making fun of people is the best thing in the world, its not. besides there just drama starters. there stupid stand up to them be witty, smart act like a total biker bad ***.

    Good luck :)gaurd

    Source(s): my own personal experience, i stand up for my friends when they get picked on kinda like a body
  • 4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Stand up to them. They will just keep doing it if you just hang your head and let them. Tell those bit*hes to grow up and get a life. Don't let them defeat you.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'd say something like "I heard u duma$$!!! hav nothing more interesting in your pitiful lives that you have to talk about other people???? Insecure much???? pleez don't lie your just jealous!!!!" then walk away with a huge smirk on your face that's the meaner way the nice way is (hug her) "awww ur so nice!!! Noticing my beautiful curves???? " and walk away with a huge smile or "wat am I doing???? Having fun :D !!!!!" thAts wat I wood do

    Source(s): Fuels enjoy makin fun of meh :/ and I'm only in middle skool but I find ways to get under there skin :D
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Confront them one by one, NOT while they're all together. Tell each one how you feel and talk to them about it. If that doesn't work, then just avoid them.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Bring a earplug.

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