why do i keep thinking about a former lover?

its okay its normal, a guy i was with before added me and i keep checking to see if he posted anything to me. Its just nice to feel desired

The thing that makes you do this is BOREDOM.

We aren't suppoesd to admit it, but little babies really are a bit dull.

Tell your husban that you want to do something exciting - try to arrange a granny as a baby sitter for one evening and get dressed up for an evening out with your man. Also maybe go clothes shopping so you can feel the glamour again.

Going to the computer is something easy to do while you are stuck at home alone with baby. Try to substitue it with getting some really funny DVDs to watch or a few excellent books - whatever will keep your attention.

Nah I feel you. Maybe it's because your husband doesn't compliment you or make you feel special. When you're married, there's no need to do that each and everyday because when you think about it, it's so childish. You know he's the best that's why you married him, and he knows you're the best that's why he married you. At times old flames do flash back, but it's really a waste of time and could potentially ruin your life. I mean, you don't have to delete him off of facebook but just keep it neutral and friendly.

No problem thinking about someone else besides your hubby. most people, that are married and especially those who have kids, do. Just don't tell your hubby as he may not take this too well. somethings are made to keep to yourself.

Its normal girl to feel ur ex, especially when u both have been in something before. Just focus on ur familly thats all.

Congrat!

It is so normal to be curious. Don't let this curiosity get the best of you. Focus on your marriage and your children.

You settled for your husband. your ex is who you really love. always be honest with yourself and your spouse in a relationship. sometimes life is very ironic . Go speak to someone.

He was an alien and implanted a repeat and recall memory device in your brain.

Stay away,if you don't want to lose your husband.

You are happy keep it like that.

Take Care.