yeah my sons have girl names...and?!

my husband and I have been married almost 7 years and have 2 small kids not in elementary school yet. I love and care a lot about him, hes a great father but piss poor husband. he does do a lot around the house, but sometimes...his presence irks me. he works and doesn't do anything bad as far as abuse, cheating, or staying out late. so I feel selfish just thinking about not being with him. I don't want to be with someone else.

plus hes very moody. his friend came by the other day unannounced. my husband wasn't home. I said to him today, when your friends come over can you be here. or give me the heads up? the house was a mess and I was embarrassed...now hes mad at me.

sometimes I think id be happier living in my own apartment co-parenting. we have sex here and there. don't share any hobbies, don't want to go to the same places as far as dinner out or vacation. he sleeps downstairs or the guest room, but gets mad when he comes to our bedroom for sex and I shoot him down.

has anyone else, just...fell out of "im in love" I say it that way cause I do still love him

I want to be a personal trainer. I already have a four year degree as a speech language pathology degree. My question is..should I get certified in fitness and personal training from online courses at ISSA or get a. Associates in fitness and nutrition from a community college? What will be more enticing to clients? Which will give me more oppertunities with gyms? I have a full time career so this is for extra money and fun.

After I poop and wipe my butt, i see blood on the toilet paper. its not much and i dont see it in the stool. just streaks on the toilet paper. im never constipated and poop with ease once a day several days a week. i workout five days a week and eat a pretty healthy diet. my rectum isnt sore and i do not participate in anal sex at all. my poos look normal. this has probably been happeining off and on for about 2 years...but i just had my youngest son the first time an thought it was just hemmorhoids or fissures....i dont have an appointment until the 28th of january..i have lective surgery set up for march 29 so i want to get this squared away prior to that...anyone experience this? any insight? only mature answers please

I want to get mommy makeover of a breast lift with implant and a tummy tuck. I had two c sections and lost about 85 lbs. I worked out mandate right to lose all that weight and continue to do so. I told my husband I wanted the mommy makeover and he was supportive. I told hm how much it would cost, about 16,000. I have half saved up. And with overtime I can safe about 1,000 a month and have the entire amount by april of 2013. No he's telling me its too much and we can do other things w the money but then he says its your money do what you want. My question is, did you go thrjwith plastic surgery without 100% of your spouse? I'd really prefer to hear from people married w kids. As opposed to just living together w a boyfriend. We have more in the line. I just don't want to bust my hip with the overtime for him to tell me no lager. What was your outcome of not having your spouses support for hour elective plastic surgery?

I have two boys. My eldest is 3.4 yo...my youngest 18 months...my oldest son will tell us when he poops in his pull up, but never takes the initiative to pee or poop in the potty. If we see him squating, we put him on the potty and he wants to get off...we make him stay...if we let him get off, he says he's done..then ten minutes later, he poops on himself....if we make him stay, he will poop in the potty... now he says change me please, mommy I pooped on myself..I make him wait so he can feel it o. Him....my yiungest is just now saying, I poop..when he poops and pats his behind.my husband is especially growing furstrated at the oldest...he's very bright and is in daycare...he's the only one is school not potty trained In his age group...my oldest is normal functioning with no delays...we have tried stickers, charts, bribing w candy, potty dance etc...he says he wants me to wipe him because the poop is disgusting...we haven't tried yet with our youngest...any sugesstions please....

SO I HAVE BEEN ON wEIGHT WATCHERS FOR SOME TIME....WHILST DOING ww I HAVE DONE BIGGEST LOSER dvdS AND GRADUATED TO P90X AND P90X2...I HAVE LOST A TOTAL OF ABOUT 85# SO FAR. BUT IM PLEATEUING LIKE CRAZY FOR THIS LAST 15#. MY QUESTION IS, DO YOU THINK I SHOULD KEEP UP WITH ww WHICH IS BASICALLY PORTION CONTROL, BUT I CAN EAT ANYTHING...OR DO P90X2 NUTRTION PLAN WHICH IS MORE RESTRICTED?...I WAS THINKING ABOUT DOING THE ww PLAN AND JUST JOURNALING MY FOOD FOR ACCOUNTABILIY....YOUR THOUGHTS AND ADVICE IS GREATLY APPRECIATED...I PRETTY MUCH HAVE MY PRE BABY BODY BACK...JUS WANT MY BODY FROM BEFORE I GOT MARRIED LOL

I wana see all but only have time/money to see one..and yes I saw strings attached and know FWB is the same premise but it still looks good...anyone seen any of these movies yet?

i was thinking of drink a meal replacement (GNC lean shake) for breakfast...but i also do weight watchers and altogether the shake plus milk (it seems te milk makes you feel fuller longer) it would e like 9 points plus...im trying to figure out why people drink the meal replacement as opposed to just eating the balance meal? is it just connivance? the shake is 180 calories....is it the calorie intake? anyone have any weight loss success off of meal replacement shakes....after you sop drinking them, did you gain the weight back? any insight would be great.

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i have lost 60 lbs and need to lose about 40 more so this would be a boost past my plateau

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i was thinking of drink a meal replacement (GNC lean shake) for breakfast...but i also do weight watchers and altogether the shake plus ilk (it seems te milk makes you feel fuller longer) it woul e like 9 points plus...im trying to figure out why people drink the meal replacement as opposed to just eatng the balance meal? is it just convience? the shake is 180 calories....is it the calorie intake? anyone have any weight loss success off of meal replacement shakes....after you sop drinking them, did you gain the weight back? any insight would be great.

I'm happily married to a good man w two cute kids...recently I got in contact w a former lover...he's married w two kids to...after some flirty & reminiscent texts of our sex life he asked to meet up. I declined but am flattered...I'm happy w my husband so y would I think about stepping out on him....anyone else been here? Ps..sex w husband is very good...do u think he's done this before? I've been 4 yrs hes married 1....

i had a c-section and have finally started doing push ups. my core is finally starting to get strong again....i can do push ups on my knees with the push up bars which allow me to go deep...almost touching my Head on the floor. i can just barely do push ups with straight legs. my goal , of course is to do them with straight legs (on my toes). i can bend my arms a little but cant go as deep as i can on my knees. so my question is...which is better? is it better to go further down while on my knees or go a little bit down while on my toes? thanks

i do p90x plus cardio and i just got a spin bike so ill bestarting that up in leiu of my elliptical soon. but i have 50 lbs to lose. i want to know if i should be doing ab exercises now. or should i wait until i lose most of this weight? my abs feel strong under all this fat. i feel my abs contracting when i do the p90x (classic). i know abs exercises are for toning, but i need/want to lose weight....so is it pointless to do abs now?

so i do p90x and i was wondering when is best to eat the protein bar. i usually eat it about 20 minutes before my orkout and drink the recovery drink afterwards. but i see every where that its best to eat the protein bar after the workout. my question is should i be eating the protein bar and drinking the recovery drink after my workout. or is it okay to eat a protein bar before the workout. pros and cons of eating the bar before or after the workout. any insight is great thanks

they will be in the s ame room. my two year old sleeps in a bed and my infant will be in a crib. my three month old still sleeps in our room in his pack and play. when we put him in his crib, and cries in the middle of the night, he wakes up my older son. then we have to fight and get him back in the bed. so im wondering to any mommas out there who might have had this issue, how and when did you resolve it? my oldest one never slept in our room, but we were trying to give the oldest one a break since he is a light sleeper. so how long should i allow my youngest one to sleep in his pack an play in me and my husbands bedroom?

so i had a baby almost three months ago. i have been doing p90x and lost about 7.5 lbs my first month. i would like to aim to lose at least 7-10 per month. i eat a clean/anabolic diet. only one carb a day and hight protein content throughout and healthy fats. loads of veggies and only 2 servings of fruit a day since its higher in sugar. i've also been getting on my elliptical for an extra 20-30 minutes a day on top of my p90x days. i just read about HIIT training and would like to incoprporate this into my workouts too. i would like to know how often should i do the HIIT training a week? i work shift work so i was thinking on days i gotta be at work early i can wake up do the p90x then do the 20 minute HIIT when i get home. if i do the HIIT and p90x will i hit the higher end of my goal of 10 lbs per month sooner then later? oh i am a black female am about 5'9" and now weigh 242. my goal is around 170. with my first son i gained 80 lbs and lost in about a year with weight watchers. i hate their new program so im not joining again. any insight or advice is much appreciated. is it reasonable to think if i eat and workout like this i can reach this goal by August? i need a reality check, thanx

i am happily married with two young boys. the guy i hooked up with before my husband and i settled down is also married with two kids. first i have no desire whatsoever to have an affair as i am very satisfied with my husband. me and the other guy recently found each other on facebook and now im like constantl checking my page to see if he posted something. what the hell is wrong with me? he said some stuff about my body calling me sexy. i didnt comment back on that. my husband knows we communicate and he's fine with it because he trusts me. but why do i keep checking my facebook messages? i dont even want to meet up with him and cant rememeber the sex at all. it was like 7 years ago. i just had a baby 10 weeks ago and i wonder if its just bcuz he's compleneting me making me feel good about myself. has anyone else been here? what would you do if you were me? what are your thoughts and be nice.

im a 30 year old female i weigh 250 and want weigh 180 by summer 2012. i'm 5'9". i just started p90x and want to know how protein should i be taking. can you reccommend a good type or brand. i prefer something for women since i had a baby 8 weeks ago. im confident i can lose the weight since i put on 80 lbs with my first baby 2 years ago and lost it all by his first birthday. plus this is baby weight so im confident it will melt off with p90x. i just want to know, since i want to lose weight and be toned, how protein i shoul consume?

i feel bad for olivia she keeps getting the dirty end of the stick. who the hell does doria think she is? she's a *****. does anyone agree?

i might have a position with them but want to know how others enjoy it. my only downfall is that i've invested 6 years with another agency and skeptical about doing 30 with NSA. how do you like it? are you able to move easily within the department. do they lay people off? just any insight into their police department would be great. how they like the job? the hours? etc