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As a man, I absolutely don't get what women like about "getting intimate" with men.?

I am not in great shape, but my wife loves to touch, kiss, snuggle, nuzzle me, etc. Can any women tell me what make a man attractive to you in the long term, and what turns you on about a man so I can accentuate that for my beautiful wife and make her even happier?

Update:

I didn't mean that I don't understand why she's with me because I don't have a great body.... what I meant was more along the lines of "I have this big thing hanging off my front that is always trying to poke at her....what does she like about that?"

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Awwww...It doesnt matter if ur in great shape or not, what matters is that ur wife loves u and u make her feel safe and she might even like the way u smell...I mean that just me, I love being held(made me feel safe), comfortable, body heat, affectionate all that good stuff. Just caress ur wife let her know that u love her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you really love somebody, you don't actually care what they look like, or whether they're not in great shape. Lucky man, your wife really loves you! Also, it makes a woman feel loved to be hugged, touched, kissed, etc..... so when she does that to you, and you do it back, it makes her feel loved, too.

    Nice arrangement, yes?

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    if someone loves you it doesnt matter what size or shape you are,they just like the closeness and want to be near you and hold you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    for me, my hubby's care works! not only in his deeds or words, but in his touch n everything i can feel that care!

    if a man gets quality to spend with his wife......it isreally appreciated by women!

    u can take her out on vacations, or a dinner, or drive!

    good luck!

    make ur wife happy!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I like that my husband makes me feel safe. And he is like a big snuggly bear. And he is good at sex.

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