relationships-PLEASE HELP ME. 17, DUDE, NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. (from an IM)?

Mate you are only 17. For far ks sake. Give it and her a big miss, not worth the aggro.

You have many many years ahead of you and as the fisherman said to the waitress, gidday darl, wats da fish of the day? In other words cobber, get out and check the menues.

Anyway it's all about your hormones, old son, you feel the end of the world is nigh, believe me it ain't. Take a big breath, go down to the beach or the Mall, and just cruise gat to perving on all the chickadee's and let your imagination go wild.

At your age brother, I was still a virgin, but I too eventually fell for a hottie only to be badly burnt, (in my opinion) BUT guess what - as the waitress said back to the fisherman, there's plenty of fish in the see, go catch one. I did - the burns were instantly healed and soothed - wonderful.

Harden up brother, you have yet to experience life and your generation are in for one real interesting ride. Don't carry emotional relationship baggage into that future, it will weigh you down. doc

What's the bet you'll soon forget K----? what's her name. cheers and beers doc

Be strong. You did the right thing telling her that you would leave her alone to deal with her issues. I think that is what she needs, time to figure out what she really wants. Don't pick up the stuff you gave her, it will be a good reminder to her to see it every day and remember that she lost a great guy. She was probably still into her ex and once her ex acted like he wanted her back, she got all confused and that is why she kind of ditched you towards the end. You can do better. She seems like she doesn't want a relationship and since that is what you are looking for, talk to some new girls!

Sounds like the same exact situation I was in 2 years ago, thats why I bothered to read all that lol.

Turned out, I was too blind to see it, and she was cheating on me the whole time. The guy whom was just her GUY BEST FRIEND, turned out to be with her the last few months I was with her. Yea I really liked her, thought maybe we could work it out, but it just won't work. Shes bad news man, let her go and move on to someone else. In the end you will be getting hurt, and I promise you, she will not get hurt. It's the truth.

Btw, I got over her. After about 6 months. lol

I really like this question and i could go on with an answer as long your question, but im not going to sit here and candy coat anything for you, or tell you to just walk away bc shes just as much of a player as her loser ex boy friend. But i get where you are coming from. Me and my ex have been broken up for months and i haven't felt a single thing for a guy since, and i honey i bet you, screw that i know if i started feeling feelings for another guy now, real strong feelings after i was hurt so badly by my ex and the new guy ended up hurting me too, id probably never ever love anybody again. That's super rough dude. And i don't blame you for being mad for being upset for being anything. But there are so many things that i have learned in my lifetime short as its been so far, im 17 as well, but one thing that comes to mind is, you cant control the ppl around you, only your own life and choices and actions. So i think there are deff positives to being hurt, no doubt. Because you know now that your gonna be so picky wen it comes to finding a girl to give your heart and your soul and all your sweet works to. Its hard i know, but this is one thing that i tell to every good guy that crosses my path, just as there are good sweet romantic lovable faithful guys out there there are the same in girls.Im saying this bc im a good girl, and i feel like someday im gonna meet one of you good guys that are out there looking for us good girls. The good guy always finishes last, its the dead truth, but hes always the happiest and gets the most and the best outta it all. The girl to me doesn't sound even close to worth your time, don't get stomped all over twice by girls, take control in your life, have goals for the girl you go for next to have, i made a list of all the things that the guys i get with gotta have to be with me, and it really helps me to protect my heart this time bc it is Sukey getting hurt. So i really hope that you take pride in being a great guy and make yourself only available to those girls that deserve you, im sorry you were hurt dear and trust me it'll get better, but don't go back to her, make yourself have what you deserve. Good luck!

What are you asking?

Kasey is a mess. Stay away from her. Stay away from the kiss-and-tell summer girl--never date the kiss and tell kind. Get a therapist. You are making a lot of bad choices in girls and need to sort some things out.

Doode all i got to say is , don't get back with her ! Your gonna end up getting hurt , and if you all do hook up she's probably gonna cheat on you or just dump you . Trust me , my best friend does that alot to most of my guy friends . Like just move on , you could do better (: Hopefully you'll find the right girl :D If you wanna talk about it more , just email me or something :b

She's not over the ex, this romantic guy was just the DitG (Dick in the Glass - a backup to make her feel better and be used by her).

Ditch her, let her keep the stuff.

dont go out of your way to talk to her. if s h e talks to you, dont ignore her but dont act like hings are fine. obviously this girl is having some issues with herself if she cant fully let go of this ex?.. shes totally giving you mixed signals and thats not okay. if she doesnt contact you, just forget her- let her go. youre better off without her. if she does contact you, and you really have feelings for her let her know how you feel bu tell her youre not gonna wait around forever. dont let her take advantage of you. keep your guard up. you dont deserve that. just hang in there no matter what happens.

Leave her alone. You've got better things to do than to invest anymore time with her. I not sure but what she's still into her bad boy thing.

Sounds like she is back with her old bf to me.