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Im having a horrible night and im really mad and dont know what to do...advice PLEASE!!?
ok so theres this guy whos a sr and im a sr and hes going out with this soph, however they have not been talking cause shes been stupid to him and never wants to hang out with him so he wanted to break up with her. and he told my friend that he liked me and last time we hung out he wanted to make a move on me.
last weekend at this party i got really wasted before he got there cause he had to work so when he got there he had like one or two drinks and smoked a little. we did it, smoked some, then he wanted to do it again so we did. he was not drunk totally normal and i told him how it sucks that he has a gf and he was like no not really anymore we havent talked in days so its pretty much over.
i was realllly exicited because i actually like him. but the next morning i had to buy the plan b pill cause i didnt think he used one and he wouldnt respond to my texts...
then on monday and tuesday he wasnt at school. like he fell of the face of the earth not even his best friends had heard from him. today he was FINALLY on fb and we were "talking" but he was being reallly short with me. like i asked if he was ok and hes like im sick and i was like oh that sucks with what? are u coming to school tom? and hes like lol idk and prob not. i asked if he was mad at me and hes like no. y? i was like ok just making sure. cause your not talking much. are you ok with what happened? and hes like i dont remember much. (WTF?!?!) i was like um ok and hes like ya i was like are u serious and hes like ya y? after taht i stoped talking to him cause i was really messed up and i remember
so idk what shouldi do?!?!?! cause i really liked him but now he just made it really awkward for the classes we have together...
:( help please
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
he wants to pretend it didn't happen because he wasn't broken up with her. he probably is still with her or just patched it up. another thing (and i don't mean to criticize) why would you put yourself in such a vulnerable position as sleeping with someone who had just broken up with his girlfriend? even drunk you had to realize that he was probably just hooking up to relieve some of his pain. i'm sorry you got used like that. its not fair. he should at least have the balls to tell you.
- 1 decade ago
Like him still, he is probably just going threw things with his ex GF or GF what-ever she is to him. Like him still an act as if you didn't do anything with him, bring it up again if an when you guys go out, tell him that you really do like him an your not a nasty kinda girl like that, that you only did it because the fact is that you do like him an want to be with him, don't come hard on him with your feelings though, knowing he just got out of a relationship that didn't work out, be careful though because he could still be talking to her an not telling you. You wouldn't want you heart your broken now. Just take things slow an be the bigger person in this case. Live an Learn an he probably doesn't remember much of what happened, fill him in on what did happen that night with him.
but remember that you were also drunk.
If he blows you off, just try talking with him as just friends, so it isn't awkward between you an him. You say he likes you but he may also be going threw things with his ex that he doesn't want to talk about with you because he likes you.
Don't rush him with anything else, you already gave it up to him.
If all else fails, get him whipped over you, so your the only one in his eyes.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Guys are hard to fathom out sometimes. Just give him a bit of his own medicine - act as if nothing much happened, don't make a big deal of it. Don't show him much interest for a bit. I guarantee if he likes you then he will let you know about it when he's ready. He probably just needs some space, play it cool. Maybe he feels he has to be a bit distant cos of Soph. Remember guys need space to figure things out and you need to able to accept that, good luck
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Just try talking to him in person...
If he really is sick he probably isn't in the mood for talking too much. Just try to tell him how you feel once you see him in person, and if he pulls the whole 'I don't remember what happened' try explaining that obviously he does if you were more intoxicated and still remember.
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- 1 decade ago
That asshole! He didn't care! That's his problem. Ooooh, if I knew where he was, I would castrate him for hurting you like that..... Ohhh that just burns me up! All you need to do, is listen to some calming music, or some music that will help you express your feelings, and then stop talking to him until he "remembers".
- 1 decade ago
uh i really thinking you just over reacting it cause i mean you shouldn't get upset with him for something like that and you guys not even together yet and you already got mad at him so it a bad start. So just take it slow
