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I'm a guy. there's this girl. we were supposed to do something but she flaked because she would be too busy hanging out with someone else:

"It's not that I don't want to hang out with it's just that andrea asked me before you did and it's not nice of me to cancel on her. I thought I could do both but I can't. I really enjoy hanging out with you and I'm sorry I didn't tell you earlier"

"I'm just saying that if I wanted to spend time with someone, id find a way."

I believe that a person's actions speak louder than their words so I haven't contacted her since because I think what she did was wrong. She hasn't contacted me either. Just curious on what you all think.

FatallEscape · Accepted Answer

I think maybe you should chill out a little because if you really like her your just gonna scare her away by getting so mad about it so soon. Look at it this way. If she wants to hang out with you she will make it happen. So this time something got in her way, understandable. Let her come to you to make plans next time though. and see what happens from there. If she keeps ditching you then forget her. but it seems like she was really sorry and just scheduled too many things in one night.

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Once i was in this girls shoes, and its always important to put your friends first , no matter what. Ive also been in her friend's situation, and it is the worstthing to be stood up by your friend for a guy. You might think its wrong, butte whole situation went the way it should have. 
She might like you and want to hang out, but t was just bad timing or maybe she doesnt feel close enough to you to hang out. You still need to call her and talk to her and stuff, but shes a girl. Let her make mistakes.

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I think that is right what you did . No girl that was caring in any was would do that. Sorry. 

Good they were texts, that would be an awkward conversation...:D

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