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what do you think about this?

I'm a guy. there's this girl. we were supposed to do something but she flaked because she would be too busy hanging out with someone else:

"It's not that I don't want to hang out with it's just that andrea asked me before you did and it's not nice of me to cancel on her. I thought I could do both but I can't. I really enjoy hanging out with you and I'm sorry I didn't tell you earlier"

"I'm just saying that if I wanted to spend time with someone, id find a way."

I believe that a person's actions speak louder than their words so I haven't contacted her since because I think what she did was wrong. She hasn't contacted me either and it doesn't look like she will. Just curious on what you all think.

they were texts btw

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    yea...I agree... If you wanna spend time with someone you'll find a way... Just sounds like a (really long) excuse... If I wanted to bail on someone, It would definitely sound something like that... But thats only if I didnt wanna hurt the other persons feelings... Otherwise i'd just say "na, cant make it" and not even offer an excuse.

    @ nick: You cant know the tone through texting but you get the general idea of which way a conversation is going based on how the other person is texting... And no matter how you spell it, an excuse is an excuse... she prolly didnt wanna tell him face to face that she didnt want to so she waited and then texted him... thats why she hasnt been back in contact with him coz she knows she's all talk.

  • 1 decade ago

    You can never really know the tone of what somebody is saying through text message. honestly think, if you had made prior engagements to someone but told somebody else you could see them either after or before but realized you couldn't, who are you committed to? the one that you made the engagement to first. I don't think you got turned down, i just really think she couldnt make it to see you. Next time TALK over the phone do NOT TEXT. texting always ends up getting twisted to end up meaning something that it really doesn't.

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