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Is it appropriate to ask top or bottom in the first conversation?

Okay so I am only 14 and ever gay/bi guy I have ever talked to asked top or bottom during the first or second conversation... I just want to know why do they do it? I don't even want to have sex yet until I find the one I am going to be with forever

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    That's not inappropriate if they're talking about the bunk beds!

    And if they're not talking about the bunk beds, they're just looking for casual sex. Those are people you avoid if you're looking for a real relationship!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I understand the curiosity. Some feel it necessary to ask this to see if there is any relationship potentiality, and I won't deny that sex is a generally an important aspect to relationships. But, if you want to be correct, I'd wait until you're in the relationship and things get serious.

  • Zunden
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It's appropriate if you're just looking for a hook-up... I would find it to be a bit of a turn-off, personally...

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I think it's not appropiate at all. It makes me think that all they want is sex.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Not less it's a trick

  • 1 decade ago

    yeah its fine i feel like

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