Is it appropriate to ask top or bottom in the first conversation? Re-Post?

That seems pretty inappropriate. I would find it rather tactless.

Not appropriate at all! What ever happen to getting to know someone first. Everyone just thinks of sex these days. That's good that you don't want to have sex until you find someone special. It's always more special that way!

I think it's only appropriate if you're only hooking up for sex. If you're looking for something more, there are more important things to discuss than sex.

Awe that's cute :) The last part, I mean lol

I dunno. I guess it's just that guys just generally have a huge sex drive during teenage years, but they're probably just curious. I've always assumed it had alot to do with puberty lol. Anyways, you'll probably be dealing with it a lot in the future. Idk what to tell you about it tho. I'm just a lesbian :)

It's nice to know from the get go, and it freaks straight guys out, that's why I do it

never ask that stuff until ur both naked and about to do it lmfao