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how to bring romance into your relationship for college kids?

not a whole lot of places to eat around us, we have little to no money, and we cant have candles in our dorms. any ideas please help! my relationship with my girl friend is slowly dwindling and i need to make drastic changes or we may not be together much longer.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Do activities!

    Go to YouTube and look up massage videos (I suggest user massage clips). Grab some vegetable oil and practice on each other.

    Get or make some cheap food and go on a hike or picnic. Bonus points if you make the food together or go shopping together.

    Take a lesson from a student club. There's ballroom/Latin dancing, writing, art, archery...something you'd both enjoy. Doing something new together builds intimacy.

    Take advantage of your college's scene. Are there plays, movies, music performances? The tickets will be cheap, and the fun will last longer.

    Good luck!

    Source(s): A college student with no money and a boyfriend.
  • 1 decade ago

    You actually can have candles in your dorms, but they can't be your traditional candles with a flame. Try Scentsy candles, which use ceramic warmers and light bulbs to heat and melt scented wax. It can be really romantic and much like a regular candle because it does light illuminate while releasing a wonderful aroma. Overall, they are actually much cheaper than traditional candles because the scent from the wax lasts a lot longer...and you can even adjust the strength of the scent.

    Don't worry, though. You don't need to be rich to be romantic. Take her on a picnic, go for a hike together, rent some DVDs and watch them together while you cuddle up on the couch. Go on a road trip...the possibilities are endless. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    You don't have to do stupid, dumb conventional things to bring romance into your relationship! Just go for a walk somewhere neither of you have ever been before and have long conversations delving into each others' souls. That should solve things.

    Or, have sex in kinky places. In the dorm elevators at night, in the classroom when there's no class time scheduled, etc. Sneak around, basically.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    get a basket and make some sandwiches and cheap stuff like that and get a blanket. Show up at her dorm and have a picnic! That would be adorable!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Prepare a nice meal together. It is a lot better when you work as a team!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow dude, i suggest getting a job, sounds like a boring relationship...no money, no going out? yikes

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