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Girls sitting on guys laps...?
So, I always have previously felt that guys would think I was heavy if I sat in their laps. So I just never have. But my best guy friend (we're complicated) wanted me to sit on his lap while he was doing something on his computer, he saw me hesitate then just pulled me to sitting. I figure I know he can pick me up and spin me around and such so he couldn't think I was too heavy, right? (I'm about 145) So I ended up sitting on one leg since his legs were apart and had both my feet on the ground so I'm not sure he was holding up ALL of my weight. He had his arm around me too. I asked him at one point if he wanted me to get up and he told me no and pulled me closer to him. So I didn't. But then when I finally got up I had hurt his leg. I know he was over dramatizing because he told me that but I actually did give his leg a cramp or something. I felt horrible!
Is there some trick to sitting on a guys lap that I don't know about? I don't want to hurt him...
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Sitting on both legs, and I know exactly how you feel because I feel the same way. I think all women do, and regardless on how much you weigh any amount of pressure on a leg for an extended amount of time is going to hurt it. I tend to only sit there for about five mins max then get up. That also helps. I wouldn't be insicure about it hun (: its normal
(p.s. to my question- he's 22)
- 5 years ago
a woman sitting on a men lap might want to intend some thing...boyfriend, chum, cousin in spite of. at the same time as a guy sits on a females lap its in many cases in elementary words becasue he's fascinated and needs to get on the point of you, actually. once you've an interest in him, then ensure he's time-honored with that in the different case he will stop attempting quite quickly
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I try sitting on my friends lap on both legs while I'm sideways and she is straight. She is 5 ft 6 135 lbs and I'm 115 lbs. 5 ft 8. She doesn't ever complain of pain so maybe if you sit on both legs?
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- 1 decade ago
Sitting on both legs is probably best to spread the pressure out.
He sounds like he enjoyed you sitting in his lap!
- 1 decade ago
From a guy point of view. I would simply just suck it up and be a man. If he wants you to be sitting in his lap, he shouldn't have a problem if you gave him cramps or not.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
i try to sit with my butt behind his leg, so i'm sitting on my thighs instead of my butt.
i have a bony butt though, so it would pinch his leg if i sat on his leg with my butt
