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my friend is always with weird guys?

Okay, so not to sound mean but my friend is always hanging around weird guys.

Like older than her (she's 16 they're usualy 19-22..soooometimes her age)

But they're like either dead end, no job, high school drop out maybe barely community college at the least guys. Ugly. Weird. Clingy.

And she like complains about them....but idk why she even talks to them in the first place? Or why she doesn't stop talking to them?!

She used to hang out with like creepy 40 year old men, but she stopped i think.

How can i get her to stop w/o telling her her guy friends/boyfriends are super freakin' wierd/embarrassing/not good enough for her?

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  • 1 decade ago

    there's really no easy way to express when you disagree with a person you really care about if you guys are really close then why not have a heart to heart with her? you can't go wrong if you are coming from a good place.. unless you are self righteous or condescending about it try to avoid judgment statements and just tell her how you fee...l you want her to know your her friend and not trying to condemn..just keep in mind that you have a valid reason for feeling the way you do so if she gets a little defensive just avoid an argument and a real friend listens to another friend who cares never forget bad company ruins good character we may love and care for people but we have to love our self enough to steer clear of certain situations I wish you the best!!

  • 1 decade ago

    From experience on both ends, I can say that if you tell your friend you don't like the people she's hanging out with, she's going to be offended, and she's going to be upset with you. Your best bet is to let her find out on her own. Just make sure she isn't being manipulated by them or anything of that nature.

  • 1 decade ago

    wow... i think your friend has psycological issues...

    she's probably looking for a fatherly figure? When a girl only hangs out with guys like that is cuz she feels them more family than her own family... get it?...

    you shouldn't be around the bush. sometimes the more straight up you are, the better!!

    tell her " HEY, Why you gotta hang out will losers and stuff? why can't you hang out with somebody who is more your age and that has their life straight?! people like this can really bring you down you know??

    things like that :)

  • Just tell her she deserves better and you don't think them type of guys she attract are good for her. It's better to be honest than to lie to her by telling her what you think she wants to hear , and she should appreciate it coming from a close friend then some stranger or someone she would least likely to hear it from. Good luck

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She actually likes the attention from these guys. They make her feel special because of the attention. And they feel a little bit dangerous because they're alot older than her. She knows it may look strange that she hangs out with people like this, that's why she complains about them, like she doesn't enjoy their company.

    Source(s): Hope I helped =)
  • 1 decade ago

    ask her what her type is, then you`ll know if you`re looking at this being a long term type prob or a phase. weird people are fun to hang out with but not that type of wierd weird............. is she like a wannabe type person and think that it will make her cool or something. ask why she likes about them seeming curious and not critical like. maybe then she`ll realize it

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm sure you see them differently than she does. But find out the kind of guys she likes, try to find some her age, and introduce them to her.

  • 1 decade ago

    i thought you meant nerds when i saw the question, and i was going to argue that nerds are sweet :)

    but that. is just creepy.

  • 1 decade ago

    your friend has potential of becoming the most successful ring girl in hobo wrestling takedown and you are going to ruin that for her?!?!?! shame on you! some friend you are!

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aja03...

  • 1 decade ago

    smack a hoe and tell her whats up

    Source(s): my dick
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