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Are there any girls out there who'd want a guy like me?
I'm 17 and have never had a single girlfriend, never dated, and I don't know how I'm supposed to approach a girl that I like. I doubt anyone's interested in me as more than a friend.
I don't really fall into any stereotype. I'm on the tall side (around 6 feet), I'm kind of a big guy (I think I'm around 190 lbs or so), I have blue eyes, dark shaggy hair, hairy arms, a natural unibrow that I tend to pluck every now and then (maybe once in a year), and a double chin that isn't too pronounced. I pretty much only wear plain T-shirts without any labels and either blue jeans or black sweats. I never wear sandals of any sort (in fact, I always wear sneakers and socks), and I never put gel in my hair.
My best personality traits? I've often been described as intelligent, kind, and witty. On the other hand, I've had serious self-esteem issues my whole life and am extremely sensitive. My hobbies include reading, writing, listening to music, hanging out with friends (although I prefer it when there's only one or two people with me), and sleeping. I'm very interested in society (especially politics).
When I see girls wearing makeup, I think to myself "why do you feel like you need to wear anything on your face to look prettier?" I can find a girl attractive in any outfit, especially if I like her. Still, I find it most attractive when girls wear outfits like these:
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And when I see the girl I like come to school dressed up in something like that, I get really shy of her. I feel lightheaded, my legs tremble, and my cheeks go so red that they itch. It's like I want to give her a hug from the side, rocking her back and forth, and rubbing my head against hers with her wavy hair tickling my neck. All I ever fantasize about is cuddling with a girl in bed, giving her flowers, etc. It's odd too, because I find romantic things somewhat sickening in their cheesiness. But I can definitely imagine myself to be less sexual than what most guys are presented as.
Do I sound dateable to you?
Oh, and I love rock music.
It's not an actual unibrow or anything. They look just like regular eyebrows. Only with a bit of hair in the middle.
Slightly below average? 6 feet?
I'm one of the taller guys in my school. That's surprising to me. Most of the people in your area are quite tall by most standards.
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Yes you do sound like the kind of guy girls are into. You don't sound like a douche you have pretty good features and you do seem Intelligent. Also your not into slutty girls so that's always a big plus. Also you probably know how to make a girl feel special, so if you cant figure out to ask her out your self ask one of your good buddies to help you out.
- 1 decade ago
Okay im a guy and i even know i girl would find this creepy probobly just becuase of the unibrow and the double chin and the fact that you explain yourself in such detail but your romantic part isn't creepy except for the "and rubbing my head against hers with her wavy hair tickling my neck"
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Mann first of all don't go online looking for girls trust me it won't ever work out..
It's better to find a girl at school or something.. Just a little bit of advice don't ever do this online especially on yahoo.. And don't think you is not datable cause everybody has to have someone..
I'm a guy by the way, just letting you know..
I'll hook a brotha up.. You come chill wit me I make all the girls want you..
Source(s): Alex is wassup! - ethersflameLv 41 decade ago
Doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with you, you sound like a nice guy. Try and build up the confidence to ask a girl out if you like her, and don't be discouraged if you get some 'no's-- not all girls look for the same things in a guy and girls your age are attracted to different things in a guy than they will be in a few years.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
First of all, where I'm from, 6' is not tall for a guy, that's slightly below average. I'm 5'10".
Anyways, I think it's because you have no interests that involves doing anything with girls.
I'm a dancer and so I'd prefer to date a guy who didn't dance, otherwise we have nothing else to do.
Listening to music isn't all that interesting, and rock music isn't all that intellectual and deep.
- 1 decade ago
yeah, I suppose. You sound all around average though...maybe work out your self esteem issues, stronger sense of humor, passionate and excited about...anything.