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My fiance's ex is telling me things. Should I listen?

I'll try to go in order of events to make this easier to understand. First he needed to contact her to get some things that she still had. He insisted that I go with him and I did. Then she told him that she went out and got man handled by someone (I was thinking so what... Who cares). Then I call her to find out what is going on and she tells me that he is always contacting her and won't leave her alone. I have found him contacting her but never found anything bad like she says. I just wonder if she is trying to get me to leave him so that she can have him back.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I think she is just trying to create trouble where there doesn't need to be any. Create your own opinion of him but be objective.

    My fiance's ex-wife told me things about him too. She let me know that despite their differences and that things didn't work out with their marriage ... he is a great guy, with a good heart and has a lot to offer. Followed by she was glad that he found someone who is good to their kids. Oddly enough, she meant it.

    I'm one of the rare cases where the ex doesn't cause problems.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    it does sound like she is trying to get you to leave him ect (getting him into trouble)

    but it could also be true that he wont leave her alone

    try talking to him about this and just say its best if he changes his number and gets rid of her number also

    if he gets angry or starts being funny about this idea then you know something is going on

    keep calm hun

    :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Hold on tight to your man.

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